My boyfriend is bisexual

[yoyoyo148]

If you 'love' him then there's nothing to be worried about. I know they are separate things but the 'love' I'm talking about includes trust, excitement, sadness, care, the feeling the need to cry for no reason and to smile for no reason all the time and all the other things I can't even think of at the moment and you only get to feel that way once. Yeah love is love but the way it makes you feel like changes everytime, different feelings you feel about different people, caused by love. But it doesn't matter if that's how you feel about him, does he make you feel that he loves you back the same way you love him? If what you're afraid of ever happens then you'll know he didn't 'love' you and then you'll consider yourself lucky you're done with being worried and wasting your time. Because telling someone you love them and then cheating on them is like saying you love your parents but you set the house on fire while they're sleeping(ikr?) I hate those kind of people. But if he makes you feel that he loves you back, stop worrying if he senses it he's gonna think that you don't trust him and it'll affect his trust too.
Btw, bisexual people are known as 'avid sex freaks' , 'cheating lying assholes'.. Bisexual people have the chance to appreciate all kinds of different features both sexes have. They like them for who they are, flirt with them the same way gay and straight people do. Of course there're people outside who are so hungry for sex and who are willing to do anything to get laid but they don't have to be bisexual for it. So if you're lover is inclined to cheat, it's not PARTICULARLY because he's bi and there tons of fish in the water for him/her , it's bacuse he's/she's inclined to cheat and that's his/her personality. (I know you didn't say that's how you feel about bisexuals or anything but I just wanted to let it out cuz I'm sick of the ones who do)

[Bowyn Aerrow]

I have been in my relationship for just over a year now & i have found out that my boyfriend is bisexual and for me it seems to be a massive thing. When he mentions that a girl is hot or he re blogs "hot" girls on tumblr or straight people fucking i can't help but get in a mood and get really really jealous. I have spoke to him about it but he says thats him & he cant change it but that he wants to be with me & no one else. He has said that he's curious to what its like to have sex with a girl and this has made me think that has soon as he finds a hot girl that he's gonna end up being with her. Has anyone else had this problem ? I really need some advice because i love him and really dont want it coming between us.

What is the difference between his leaving you for a Hot Gal over a Hot Guy?

If he is going to leave you he is going to leave - it doesn't matter the gender of the person he leaves you over - or am I wrong and you can accept his leaving to pursue Mr. Hot Body over Ms. Hot Body.

[southbiochem]

3 things:

1.- You state that you're in a open relationship, hence, it shouldn't be a problem is the BF is looking out there...it maybe guy or gal and it would be irrelevant..

Have a talk to the BF into changing the relationship into an exclusive one if it's what you want

2.- Regarding the above, you say he has told you he only wants to be with you. Do you have strong reasons not to trust him? Is he the unfaithful kind?

Anyway, he has been honest with you in having a curiosity about sex with women. Unless you have valid and funded reasons to believe he will go about it, expressing a desire or a curiosity does not automatically mean he will actually do it.

3.- What's the difference bewteen him checking out some girl and him checking out some other guy?...If it bothers you that he maybe attracted to other women, you should be just as bothered by him being atracted to another guy..

and we're back to the first point..if you want a monogamous relationship, communicate this to him.

Commnication is key, sir mile: