Is he in to guys?

[BiGuy]

So - on Saturday night I had some friends round for drinks and there was a guy there I hadn't met before, we all got pretty drunk although this guy didn't seem to drink much and didn't seem to drunk. Later in the evening everyone had fallen asleep and it was just me and this guy I hadn't met before, he kept putting his hands down his trousers and playin with his dick until eventually got it out. I just ignored it for a bit and then at one point he "dared" me to lick his balls. Then I left the room we were in and he follow me in to my bedroom where he closed the door and laid on my bed with his dick still out and asked me to suck him off.

The next day I looked him up ok Facebook to see if he was potentially in to guys but it seems he has kids and seems completely straight. I messaged him asking what the other night was about and he messaged to say he didn't know what I was talking about and to please not message him.

Do you think this guy was just drunk and horny or may have a thing for guys? I find it hard to belive a guy is completely straight when they have tried to initiate a sex act with another guy.

What are your thoughts?

[nfisher1226]

Closeted bisexual who got bold with a bit of liquor in him and then was ashamed of it later.

Try to forget about it. Guys like that are trouble until they make peace with themselves, and sometimes that takes a real long time. Sometimes it never happens at all.

Oh, and welcome to the show!

[southbiochem]

agreed, closeted bi at least...

this is for mr. I offer my balls...

You don't do stuff like that unless you're drunk and even then..it's not right

it's bad enough you think it's cool to flash your genitals to strangers in public, but you have kids too?

I don't care if you're gay, bi or simply a horn dog, you're a married guy with kids...learn how to behave like decent person..

BiGuy: avoid this kind of people, they're no good..

and BTW, welcome to the forum mile:

[yoyoyo148]

Guys will do anything to get blow-js. I mean I remember talking to a few of my guy friends (im not that close to them btw) they were all like "dude so would you suck a man's dick for a million dollars" shit like that and one of them said "i would never suck a dick but if you wanna go down on me i won't stop you"
Some guys don't seem to care i don't know if he knows that you're into guys? or whatever but maybe he sensed it even tho he didn't know for sure so he thought he would give it a try with a guy. everyone fell asleep? perfect time to "try" something.
All im saying is that you don't have to like dudes, if he's open-minded and a little bit curious it'll be enough to do the exact thing he has on his mind when he gets the opportunity.
He probably felt ashamed because you refused him and he's trying to forget about the awkwardness before.

[BiGuy]

i assume he is in a relationship with children from what you post? stay away from this unless you really really know what your are dong. Be intimate with people who are on top of their game.

the mental picture of him scratching him self is eeeeew and sad.

He's not in a relationship, I think he just has one kid maybe from a previous relationship, I think he's about 26.

[BiGuy]

Thanks for all your advice guys. I didn't bother replying to his message back, anyone think I should? Just for clarification I didn't completely reject him but what happened was short lived as I was worried people were in the house..

[nfisher1226]

Thanks for all your advice guys. I didn't bother replying to his message back, anyone think I should? Just for clarification I didn't completely reject him but what happened was short lived as I was worried people were in the house..

OK, so you didn't completely reject him...I'm not going to ask. But no, I think he's made it clear that he doesn't want to hear from you again. Anything further from you would be wasting your time. I think you should move on and consider it a lesson learned.