Gal-Pals (AKA Fag Hags)
11-24-2013, 06:46 PM
My Gal Pal (AKA Fag~Hag is a term I dislike) Left me for greener pastures in the far north earlier this year. 
While we have nice phone conversations and exchange emails - it is not as satisfying as her blowing into Mirkwood unannounced, kicking butts, taking names and forcing me to do things like, um, talk.... accept hugs and 'advice'. As intrusive as she could be, and as much as I thought I disliked that - well I guess I was wrong.
She was the only one who I could turn to when my relationship died - she was kind enough to force me to eat and allowed me the horribly messy 'honor' of literally crying on her shoulder. I so rarely cry in front of people so that admission there should clue you in on how deep our relationship was - is?
I kinda sorta miss her.
There is no way She and her Boy-Friend-Who-Is-Not-A-Boy-Friend (a complex and puzzling relationship) are going to return to the verges of Mirwook any time soon.
Emails, phone calls and other electronic communications just ain't filling that gap for me...
Would it be wrong for me to admit that I want to find a replacement Gal-Pal?
If not, then where on earth do I find a replacement gal-pal?
Is there a Grind'r Type 'Fag-Hag Dating' app or site?
I know that may sound funny - but I'm serious, is there an app/site where lonely gay men can find lonely straight women who like the company of gay men?
This may be a sad confession, but I now have no (zero) friends left in my life (Real life, internet life.... well IDK actually). I have several acquaintances but they are not friendship material - I am not that comfortable with them to tell all and they appear to only show up when they need something and if I don't call or am not seen for a while they never inquire, call or check up on me.
As everyone surely knows, I don't go anywhere. Since my license was taken from me due to that minor ER visit over status epilepticus last fall, my ability to go anywhere is gone. I live 2 miles from the nearest bus stop.... Its rural where I live. So going out and meeting new people at the local bar or something (No there is no LGBT center in this area - we are not that civilized) is a no go situation.
I guess I could stick with drinking alone, the boss has a larder of alcohol which is really well aged since he stopped drinking 30 years ago... But me thinks that may be a problematic solution....
Another relationship/partnership really ain't in the cards. My half hearted attempts to find a new husband are exactly that - half hearted. I'm still a bit through with the male species as whole so I'm not really looking nor interested. But a Gal-Pal may be exactly what the doctor ordered....
Thoughts, suggestions, offers of euthanasia...
While we have nice phone conversations and exchange emails - it is not as satisfying as her blowing into Mirkwood unannounced, kicking butts, taking names and forcing me to do things like, um, talk.... accept hugs and 'advice'. As intrusive as she could be, and as much as I thought I disliked that - well I guess I was wrong.
She was the only one who I could turn to when my relationship died - she was kind enough to force me to eat and allowed me the horribly messy 'honor' of literally crying on her shoulder. I so rarely cry in front of people so that admission there should clue you in on how deep our relationship was - is?
I kinda sorta miss her.
There is no way She and her Boy-Friend-Who-Is-Not-A-Boy-Friend (a complex and puzzling relationship) are going to return to the verges of Mirwook any time soon.
Emails, phone calls and other electronic communications just ain't filling that gap for me...
Would it be wrong for me to admit that I want to find a replacement Gal-Pal?
If not, then where on earth do I find a replacement gal-pal?
Is there a Grind'r Type 'Fag-Hag Dating' app or site?
I know that may sound funny - but I'm serious, is there an app/site where lonely gay men can find lonely straight women who like the company of gay men?
This may be a sad confession, but I now have no (zero) friends left in my life (Real life, internet life.... well IDK actually). I have several acquaintances but they are not friendship material - I am not that comfortable with them to tell all and they appear to only show up when they need something and if I don't call or am not seen for a while they never inquire, call or check up on me.
As everyone surely knows, I don't go anywhere. Since my license was taken from me due to that minor ER visit over status epilepticus last fall, my ability to go anywhere is gone. I live 2 miles from the nearest bus stop.... Its rural where I live. So going out and meeting new people at the local bar or something (No there is no LGBT center in this area - we are not that civilized) is a no go situation.
I guess I could stick with drinking alone, the boss has a larder of alcohol which is really well aged since he stopped drinking 30 years ago... But me thinks that may be a problematic solution....
Another relationship/partnership really ain't in the cards. My half hearted attempts to find a new husband are exactly that - half hearted. I'm still a bit through with the male species as whole so I'm not really looking nor interested. But a Gal-Pal may be exactly what the doctor ordered....
Thoughts, suggestions, offers of euthanasia...
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