Advice- Relationship interest will not talk to me on Thanksgiving

[Bowyn Aerrow]

To me, it sounds dismissive.

And the problem here is.....?


If this is the older guys you were seeing previously... then this is a miscommunication of generations and not actually dismissive.

The fact that he responded tells me lots about what he is thinking. HE could have just waited until later to send you a text.
The fact that he told you he was at his sisters should have conveyed a great deal of data to you which perhaps because of your generation, you just can't fathom.

Even the whole 'he dismissed' me is kind of a shock in that you have a problem with it considering you are looking for older, dominant tops who are mature thus are going to treat you more like a child than an adult and dismiss you when you are not needed.


BTW age is not just a number - and as long as you remain deluded by that notion you are going to be in for a lot of tiny and even nasty shocks similar to this one.

[Dan1980]

Hello, my name is mark taja, and i really need your advice and help.
there's this guy who is my friend for a little while ago. we were drinking with our girlfriends at a night club one night and i guess he started feeling dizzy from the drink, i was laying my hand on his shoulders when he whispered in my ear telling me to lower my hand. i checked to see if anyone is looking and found none, so i began to touch his ass although he was wearing a jeans. he started laughing and whispered again in my ear telling me in an ironic way that do you think your girlfriend would dump you if she finds out that you're playing with my ass??.
a couple of weeks passed after that night and neither of us talked about what happened to each other. one night i invited him to sleep over and spend the night at my place. we went and grabbed a vodka bottle and spent the night drinking. we felt dizzy from the drink after almost 3 hours, then we went to sleep. we started chatting each one lying in his bed, then he wanted to show me pics of the girls he met online, so i approached to his bed. after a few minutes, i lifted up the cover a little bit and moved my hand slowly toward his leg while we were chatting. i started to caress his leg, then moved to my hand to his dick from over his pyjamas. he didn't make any move neither said anything. then i let my hand into his pants and started playing with his dick and moved slowly until i reached his asshole. i caressed his asshole and moved back to his dick without him saying anything, yet he kept looking at his phone and kept chatting with me about the girls. after like 3 minutes he told me that he will not have an erection since he dick needs pussy to erect and not a man. i kept on touching his dick, then he tuned to other side telling me to go and sleep. i moved my hand to his ass cheeks and caressed it. he started saying "i'm really lost!!" which i couldn't interpret because i couldn't decide if he was curious or if he was just drunk. he grabbed my hand and removed it from his pants.
i felt so down and went to my bed thinking of what just happened. i slept. we woke up in the morning like nothing happened, we chatted normally, ate breakfast and spent all day together.
after that we never spoke of what happened that night also, but we kept on going out with our girlfriends all together normally to have fun. meanwhile, when we go out for a drink and get a bit drunk, i often chat with him at late nights. i start by telling him to come to my place for another drink and he keeps on replying that he needs girls to be at my place so he can have sex and fuck them. one time i told him to come to place and fuck me, he replied that it's useless since he needs pussy.
to cut it short, i want your advice on this; i'm travelling with him and a friend of ours on monday till thursday or 3 nights. me and him will be sleeping in the same hotel room. i really like this guy and i want to have sex with him. what do you think i should do? how can i seduce him?
i really really need your help, i'm so confused.
awaiting your reply.
thank you.

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