Why do Asian guys...

[miimo]

When I was single I used to get that kind of thing a lot. It's more dependent on the person. I wouldn't say it's a Chinese thing or anything like that.

[Pix]

I would guess that for some reason you react different to them (which you may not even realize) which in turn gets them to react differently to you.

[NeedTips]

...fall in love with me so easily?

It's a little confusing. All of my friends think it's sooooo creepy, but myself? I think I've just gotten used to it. My last two boyfriends were Chinese (both 27y/o). The very first day I started dating them, they told me that they were in love with me. Personally, I thought it was cute, but once again, my friends told me that they are creeps & to stop talking to them, ahahah.

*fast forward to present-day*

Now, I've been talking to another Chinese guy. He's 34y/o. We've been "talking" for a couple days and just a couple hours ago, he told me he was in love with me. Mind you, I haven't even met this one in person yet. Is that creepy? He's always telling me things like "I only want you" and "You are the perfect boy". Can someone really like another just from chatting and not meeting face-to-face? I think it's possible (look at all these long-distance relationships), but only after a few days?

I guess what I'm getting at is... Is he being sincere? Do y'all think it's creepy? Am I an Asian magnet? Am I really that beautiful... and handsome... and perfect... and funny... and lovely... and wonderful... and amazing... and fantastic... and and anddddd?

LOLOLOL, k...

Wow, get over yourself. So 2 Asian guys like you, that means all Asian guys like you? If 2 white guys do the same, will you be on here asking the same thing about white guys?

[MisterTinkles]

Anybody who says to me "I love you" before the three month dating period is over, may not be creepy, but he is definitely someone that I dont want to go any further with.

You cannot fall in love with anyone you dont know/met/dated. Thats just ignorant.

I call these types "emotional leeches". They are parasites, hopping onto any person who shows them the slightest interest, then proclaiming their "love" for them, in hopes to snatch them up into their web of use and abuse. These people are mentally unbalanced, and only looking to use someone for as long as they suit their needs. Once you dont fit their needs anymore, they find another one.

Personally, I would rather date a 100 "players" than one of these leeches. They can be scary and even get violent if they arent given what they want.

Move on.

[Hikari]

A few year ago there is Japanese song that say " I love you " in English , so a lot of Japanese people say " I love you " when they meet someone who they like because it is just English that they know . Maybe they do not understand it properly . . .

[partis]

When theres a lack of fluent conversation your missing out on a lot. People dont THINK in broken english. Maybe you like asians because you dont reveal all of yourself. Lost in translation.

[TomStatic]

I could never believe in loving someone
Youve never met as to be they dont know the real you
Like how u are day to day life
Online love to me is like that gane second life
All another not realistic

[MisterTinkles]

Hahaha, approachable? Nice try... I tend to repel guys.

UPDATE: I've already stopped talking to said Chinese guy after he invited me over to take care of his... needs. That's like the biggest turn-off to me.

Better to repel them, than to attract all the lunatics, liars, cheats, and frauds like I do!!!

[MisterTinkles]

A few year ago there is Japanese song that say " I love you " in English , so a lot of Japanese people say " I love you " when they meet someone who they like because it is just English that they know . Maybe they do not understand it properly . . .

Understandable, but what would they think this means then?

[megumidesu]

Understandable, but what would they think this means then?

a lot of the time they think it's a cool english thing to say and will probably get them laid. which it often does