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12-08-2013, 11:40 PM

So recently ive been searching various dating sites and contacting some guys again, I just feel like putting my head in my hands... every guy I ever talk to just interest in sex, the latest one just sent me a fucking shits load of porn I didn't want ( yeah thats what you do when you meet someone, send them videos of strangers having sex) I HATE PORN . Then starts telling me he want me to f*** him in the a*** even though i tell him im not that way inclined cause apparently he cant understand english. This is the norm and i struggle to meet guys in other enviroments as im really quite shy with new people and just saying hello.

12-08-2013, 11:52 PM

Dating sites are fun like that. You have to sort through the piles of shit before you find anyone worth your time. They occasionally can work out, but don't expect anything instant.

12-09-2013, 12:05 AM

Yes well I met my two previous partners through sites, I know what you mean. This was just more of a rant, it just pisses me off that guys treat you like meat, that's not an exaggeration.

12-09-2013, 12:24 AM

partis Wrote:It just pisses me off that guys treat you like meat, that's not an exaggeration.

you're not just piece of meat, sure..you have bones too, you know? :biggrin:

Oh, well, I've heard hell about dating sites..so I guess it's normal

in the midst of all this garbage you should find someone alright I guess..you just have to be patient..

so, what about aquaintances? I know I'm better off getting to know new people (cause I SUCK at doing that myself) if they're people who know someone I know..

maybe you could try it..

12-09-2013, 12:38 AM

..yeah,

That's part of the reason why I don't even bother with online type
dating anything. It's all pretty much the same. People either tell you
upfront that they only want sex or they play with you first then if you
bite they'll reel you in.

I'm sure there's a few gems out there, but I wouldn't know myself
cause I haven't really seen or met anyone to prove otherwise..

12-09-2013, 12:47 AM

southbiochem Wrote:you're not just piece of meat, sure..you have bones too, you know? :biggrin:

The thing is i wouldnt even mind that :p IF they just made me a little interested first.

Ahhh fiddle sticks.

12-09-2013, 12:48 AM

I don't know if it's just where I am geographically, but I tend to get a lot of people in Ghana/Ivory Coast/wherever saying that I am a "beautiful person" and that they want to marry me in the first message.

At least you guys get people wanting to fuck you, I have lately tried to just on a basic level meet PLATONIC friends and that doesn't work either. Even the guys on one particular website who say what they are looking for is "friends", and I message them and they go "sorry, you're not my type". I'm sorry, I didn't realise you had to be someone's type just to have a conversation with them.....(I am of course being sarcastic).

Rant over Wink

12-09-2013, 10:59 AM

ExpatBrit77 Wrote:I don't know if it's just where I am geographially, but I tend to get a lot of people in Ghana/Ivory Coast/wherever saying that I am a "beautiful person" and that they want to marry me in the first message.

At least you guys get people wanting to fuck you, I have lately tried to just on a basic level meet PLATONIC friends and that doesn't work either. Even the guys on one particular website who say what they are looking for is "friends", and I message them and they go "sorry, you're not my type". I'm sorry, I didn't realise you had to be someone's type just to have a conversation with them.....(I am of course being sarcastic).

Rant over

Yes funny how they need a type to be there friend.. hmmm. I wouldnt mind that but most guys seem to want one thing only, and nobody has a camera on there phone in 2013 and the only 3 words they can type is "what you into"... i reply "luv being fucked" to one guy and he replys "I do"... selfish! :p

12-09-2013, 07:18 PM

partis Wrote:Yes funny how they need a type to be there friend.. hmmm. I wouldnt mind that but most guys seem to want one thing only, and nobody has a camera on there phone in 2013 and the only 3 words they can type is "what you into"... i reply "luv being fucked" to one guy and he replys "I do"... selfish! :p

one of these days, just to see if they get my sense of humour, I'm going to reply "Tetris" or "Soduku" to "wot u in2?" (maybe I wouldn't be quite so facetious if they formed proper sentences as opposed to F**KING text speak. I know this is the 21st century but even so).