Don't know what to do and how to survive this

[sitchblap]

Guys like you are sick. Lies and excuses all the time.... you need to acknowledge what was wrong and break up with him.

[less]

sitchblap
Oh, why are you being so rude. I've always been a good person and I know
that what I've done is wrong. But people make mistakes all the time. I was
confused and didn't know what to do.
And most of the stuff I'm reading here is "you're sick" "you're a bastard"
"burn yourself".
I wasn't going to be a cheater and I believed it was just a hard time for us and G., I believed we could survive it and I could love him again.
I was not going to find somebody else, the way I got to know D. is a huge story itself.

And I'm not trying to justify myself. I just want to know why are you saying such things after all

[EvenOlderButWiser]

The old man has a point. If you ever want the D. then you'll have to contact him or he'll be gone for ever. and that's a long time.

The "Old Man" Bloody kids

ObW
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[EvenOlderButWiser]

Guys like you are sick. Lies and excuses all the time.... you need to acknowledge what was wrong and break up with him.

This is an over the top unfair response Bitchslap.

You don't know the OP or the details of the situation, none of us do. The OP came here for advice, not your personal opinion of the situation he's found himself in.

ObW

[Jake]

Guys like you are sick. Lies and excuses all the time.... you need to acknowledge what was wrong and break up with him.

Guys like you are insensitive and easy to judge - now how do you like that? I don't even know you but I allow myself to label you as such? My grandma always said if you have nothing good to say... shut the hell up and keep it to yourself. People come here with all kind of problems seeking advices; whether you agree with it or not or that the issues touches you on a personal level you still have to respect the poster. Do you truly believe that Less feels happy about it?

Take a chill pill dude and when you feel ready to properly voice your opinion, and I mean properly, come back and be a man about it. Now I believe that you owe apology to Less so how about you get on it... or do you prefer to become the "sick one" you just labelled someone you know nothing about.

I may not agree with Less behaviors but there is no reason to kick him while he's down and confused... there's enough bully in this world to take over this task. Be a man and apologize... that comment was extremely disgusting. And I do not think anyone here would endorse such bigotry.

[Sylph]

Gurl, im sorry, I can't go through the niceties on this one. Everyone's dun said it, Sis, pack up shop and move the fuck outta town. Not literally of course, but get over it.

First, get out of it, repair it and move on from it.

Aint no bodies fuckin drama in this entire gay ass world, worth it. All this your going through, aint worth it, and is self inflicted.

You can only be helped so far if you inflict pain unto yourself. You're gonna have to remedy your own pain at some point and the pain of others of which you caused.

Hunni, yes you were a bitch, a cunt actually, but even saying that, you're not a bad person. Like you said, just a person who made mistakes and is confused.

But you know what confused people who make mistakes do? They figure it out and learn.

Learn from your mistakes, stop repeating them, Einstein even said so, it's the basis for insanity. Get a grip gurl and take hold of your life.

You'll be okay, but only if you wanna be. Sometimes the truth and honesty hurts, believe me I know, but you have to work for it, to achieve it. Work at being better, stop just wanting to be, that wont be enough.

Talk to these people. Get your head from up under your ass, its not a hat, and rectify this situation boo. It'll be tough, but life generally is from time to time, and you gotta hold you own.

It may seem harsh, but slaps from reality usually are.

Now take a sip of water, nibble on a cracker, and shake a leg!

:3

[Deedee]

I dont want to waste that 4 year relationship! Seriously its hard to find a partner that would be with you for 4 years to share your ups and down in life.

[miboy]

Did you have the same or similar feelings when you met G ?
A friend told me that people usually show their best side at the beginning.
So how can you sure that after years you could still be the same about D , as you don't know him very well now?

But you know almost everything on G (at least I think so), If you really can't stand him, then maybe it's time to breakup or take a short break. If I were you, I would talk with G deeply about the mutual problems if necessary.