12-14-2013, 02:56 AM
Ryocchi Wrote:Are you seriously going there? first if it was an open relationship, the poster shouldn't have lied to anyone, he lied to D and he lied to G, yet he told D he was single, when the fellatio occurred he wouldn't have felt that bad and the message G sent D doesn't give any vibe of an open relationship.
And the first thing EVERY cheater tell his partner is "It was just a hook up! nothing serious" followed by "I will never se him again."
I chose not to make any presumptions, I am also playing devils advocate because i think people are focusing on the wrong thing.
I am not defending the lying, that IS wrong, honest communication IS important.
Lets look at what was actually said.
Quote: After G. texted me I my hard-on fell.So his BF turned him off, it could have been because he felt guilty, but not guilty enough to stop what he was doing (he did give head and stay over after all).
It could also be because he is just over his bf and the reminder was an irritation. (ever been turned off by an ex that calls at the wrong time?)
Quote: Yesterday G. found out D.'s messages and messaged him from my phone. "I'm sorry. I have a boyfriend and I'm staying with him".Notice how he didn't say that G asked him to explain what was going on. G didn't blow up and txt what the **** are you doing with my bf?
Sounds to me that G didn't care that they had been fooling around, he just wanted to make it clear that they were in a relationship.