hello

[Star Twister]

hello my name is joseph
how are you.i am 23 i live in england. i am gay man and i am looking fro help on this website. i go to collage an i like dancing and cooking and shopping
thank you good bye

Hello Young Joseph,

May I firstly say I am relatively new to this forum and the guys here are indeed friendly and welcoming.
What is it you are studying at college?

I think you have done the right thing by coming on here asking for advice before you go steaming into the unknown. Coming out can and still is very difficult for some, it’s a shame as in today’s society you would think it be a doddle,

I agree with PA, is it family or certain friends that would be cross with you?

Where about’s do you live? Are there any support groups near you as these are a very good start.

Don’t know what else to say really; apart from keep posting and I hope you get the help you need from Gay Speak

Keep Posting Mister


xxxxx

[Star Twister]

hello thank you everyone for the welcome.
i was bit worred about telling becase them might say you cant be or if they get cross. i wonted to tell my family and my support worker so they can help me an just so my family now.
i am happy becuas i get some help now here
thank you everone
joseph

Hello again,

Your support worker should understand, do you think you can tell him/her first before you tell anyone else?


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[joseph]

hello
i like it here it is fun!!!! i am doing at college skills for living and work it is ok. i write about my problem in the problem bit again so i can tell about it propely. i will like to go to a group but i dont know how to go to it. thank you everone for the welcome.
josephmile:

[princealbertofb]

Hello again,

Your support worker should understand, do you think you can tell him/her first before you tell anyone else?


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That's also what I thought, Twister, so I think I may have suggested that to Joseph, already. He says he has a female support worker mostly.

[Star Twister]

That's also what I thought, Twister, so I think I may have suggested that to Joseph, already. He says he has a female support worker mostly.

Ah !!

Coolio

:biggrin:

[Star Twister]

hello
i like it here it is fun!!!! i am doing at college skills for living and work it is ok. i write about my problem in the problem bit again so i can tell about it propely. i will like to go to a group but i dont know how to go to it. thank you everone for the welcome.
josephmile:

Glad you are enjoying college.......

If you do decide to go to a group, you may want to get the number and give them a call first, that way you can keep your anonymity.
They would best advise you on how to proceed

Hope that helps

xxxxx

[joseph]

hello. my support worker is normaly a man i think i said it wrong by acisdent. but i have diffrent ones aswell becase the one who comes to my house an out and about is a man but my keyworker at college is a woman.sorry about that

[Star Twister]

Hey Joseph,

I have just noticed you are in Newcastle, I know there are a number of gay venues there.


Mesmac Young Men's Group
A fun, friendly and safe place to make friends, socialise and be yourself. Open to all young men aged 16 -19 who are (or think they may be) gay or bisexual.

[SIZE=2]The group meets on Tuesday evenings in Newcastle City Centre, offering a safe space to discuss coming out, gay men and the law, HIV, safer sex, relationships. Social activities and trips out. [/SIZE]
[SIZE=2]Also provides groups for a range of age groups. [/SIZE]



Mesmac, 3rd Floor
11 Nelson Street
Newcastle
NE1 5AN

01912 331 333

They have a website http://www.mesmacnortheast.com/

Do try and give them a ring you'll be surpised how surportive these kind of groups can be.
Keep us posted Joseph

xxx