Advice for a straight guy

[Nosferatu]

Hello people. I'm a straight happily married man. My wife and I enjoy an active sex life but have recently fallen upon an issue that I hope you guys can advise me on. The thing is we both love anal play, as I imagine all people who experiment with anal (gay and straight, male and female) start with a finger and get more adventurous with practice until big toys or fists are enjoyed. We continue to experiment with increasingly larger toys and my wife has found a dildo she is happy with and does not want to go any larger( she loves the feeling of fullness but cannot climax from anal penetration on its own) we are both happy with this. I however climax quite easily from anal penetration on its own and the bigger the toy (girth) the more intense the pleasure. This is where my issue is, the most recent toy we bought is called "rascal black balled" it is quite big and it doesn't matter how relaxed I am or how much lube we use or what toys we use to prepare me or how much "room odouriser" lol I smell I just can't get it in. Not even a little bit. When we try I am in no pain at all and think my anus itself could cope with the toy but I think the problem lies with my pelvic bones. I don't know the correct names for the boney parts of my bum but the bones feel too close together for this toy to fit between them. I've seen online videos with men and women taking much bigger toys. Does anyone else have the same issues as me. Can bone structure halt anal play. Do I have to lower my limits or am I doing some thing wrong?????? Thanks.

[hank]

It may just be to big. I don't really mess with this kind of stuff so I can't say I have had this issue.