Advice

[southbiochem]

We have discussed it and never come to a decision, and yes he has basically said that he wouldn't let his mother live alone. His father has had a stroke and in a nursing home. Thank you for advice

The I don't think moving in with him will be the best idea...

not if you'll be miserable...see, one can make comprimises but eventually if the situation get umcomfortable, then you will come to resent him for it and that will probably damage the relationship--

you shoud remain in my opinion where you are and still see him

may I ask how often do you see each other?