Most definitely not a stupid idea , let him know how you feel.
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Update: He said that he isn't 100% ready for a relationship, but hopes that what we have eventually builds to one. I told him that I was fine with that and had the same hopes, but I just don't want to wake up one day and find out that he's met someone else and I've invested my energy and time in our relationship for nothing. We both admitted that we aren't talking or seeing other people.
I've decided that I'm going to be patient and just try my hardest to 'enjoy' this. Things are pretty good, I really like him and I don't need a label as long as I know where we both stand and that we're both ok with the way things are. I want him to be comfortable and I want to be a part of his life. If it takes some time to get there (and hopefully it will) the foundation of our relationship will be that much more solid because of the time we took.
Thoughts?
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