Just came out to myself as Bi

[Kackerlacka]

well h iyall, just came out to myself as bi, still unsure of the attraction, but i just feel comfortable as having this for now!!1 still gunna sort it out in the end! but im coming out to myself more now and to others!

[CellarDweller]

welcome to the forum!!

[Woollyhats]

I wondered if you were... :tongue:

Remember if you ever feel nervous or panicked: You have no obligation to come out, and this just means your options are WIDER than before. To use a bad analogy, instead of being limited to 1-3 you now can go from 1-6. So if you panic or feel upset; that might help you calm.

Also: There's sometimes a misconception that a bisexual person cannot be satisfied with a monogamous relationship. This is a lie --- you are just as valuable, and can be just as faithful as anyone else.

If you're safe and want to come out and possibly think about dating men; then do so! I will always support people being themselves as long as they're safe and not hurting anyone .

[Rosethorn999]

Congrats hun. Love ya no matter what <3

[Bravo]

That makes two of us congrats!

[Eth21]

Congratulations!!! Accepting yourself is often the hardest step!! So well done!!!

[davearoo]

Don't feel that "sorting it out" means having to choose one end of the spectrum or the other. Very few people are 100% straight or 100% gay.

[Evan88]

Congrats...good for you, you did your part of accepting yourself...its often the harder part.

Anyway, welcome to the forums

[southbiochem]

Love has no labels Dan, so it's ok.

You can define yourself as you feel more comfortable!

mile:

congrats!

[James]

Just remember as you explore your own sexuality, you have the full support of those here at GS, Jim