If it's not of too much concern to you...................
Have you tried letting him watch porn while doing things with you?
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Is the problem for you the porn or lack of intimacy due to his inability to have an erection all the time?
Porn could be hampering his performance but there are always pills he can take to help him with his erectile dysfunction.
Diabetes and weight could be another factor. There are other possible reason too.
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I had the same problem. There's one thing to watch porn. Maybe save some of your favorite videos here and there to watch again sometime later. But to have mounts of videos and pictures saved it is where you can get a little worried. I started out saving these videos and pictures. As time went on, I found more and more. Now, I was never in a relationship at the time, but I started to notice that these seemed more like a collection, than a simple time to enjoy myself, when I have over a thousand saved on USB. I noticed that this was just pretty much eating me up so I deleted whatever I had. And I still have the USB left to delete, but it's lost :o Anyways, you should talk with you bf about this in a mature conversation. It could be getting in the way of the relationship and your sex lives as a whole. So from personal experience, have a sit down with him, tell him what's on your mind in a calm matter and see where things head out.
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Hum, how old is your boyfriend? Does he use drugs, or did he? Does he work really hard?
There can be a lot of factors at play.
Porn gives us an unreal concept of what sex is. Are you his first lover? Is he out of the closet?
I had a "sort of" boyfriend a couple of years ago. We were both inthe closet. He swore he was straight. We only ever had up to oral sex. But if I "got too gay" for him, he would immediately lose his erection. The first couple of times I was very nervous I couldn't keep it up.
I wouldn't jump to any conclusions. He may not know why he goes flat. But pressure is the worstthing you can do.
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Porn does mess up the mind. I know this from personal experience. I cannot perform if there isn't at least a two day window between porn and the real thing. He may be similar. I do think he's addicted to porn. It cant hurt to sit down and talk with him about it and see what he says. As weird as it sounds you might try watching it together.
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I jack to porn all the time... Uhh I have watch porn while in relationships. I don't think it matters too much. Sometimes I just need to bust a nut.
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this may sound bad....but I PAY for that...15 dollars a month LOL
BRAZZER BABAY!! lol TMI? sorry sorry....anyways!!! yeah i view porn and im in a relationhip..HD PORN BABY!!
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Opinions on porn viewing in a relationship.
