Hey there, so I am in a new relationship, my first one in a long time, and well my boyfriend and I have not gone all the way yet, but we have fooled around. Anyways here is the situation. I feel like when we finally go all the way, that I won't be "good". During our fooling around I discovered his stamina is insanely good, he can last an extremely long time. Twenty minutes of me performing oral, and using my hand at some points, and nothing, still going. I mean he was loving it, I know that, but my issue is, my stamina is no where near that good, with those anyway, maybe 10 minutes if I'm lucky. It's quite embarrassing. Thankfully I managed to survive it all, and control myself. So I am wondering if anyone has any tips or advice on building up my stamina, and just lasting longer, I really don't want to disappoint, and I fear that I will. =/
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if by stamina you mean you cum quick or fast, I had that problem, what works for me is to go at it but when I feel close or near to cumming, I stop focus on stimulation of the other person in other ways then as I calm down I continue and repeat that way I last longer
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The average amount of time it takes for males to reach climax is 7 minutes.
10 minutes is longer than average.
There are desensitizing methods and creams.... however couples who work together, learn each others limits, can time their orgasms and do other interesting things to delay the one until the other is ready.
That is where multiple sessions with the same person comes in handy, you really get to know how that person ticks, their turn on's their buttons and the secret combination that sets them off rapidly.
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Relax and enjoy.
As dfiant says "practice makes perfect" which is very true.
Some poor guys can't even cum at all!
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