Is my straight best friend bisexual?
03-15-2014, 07:15 PM
This is going to be a long storry, but i really need your own opinion, help, experience, so please read if you're willing to help.
(Im a male, to start off, lol)
Me and my friend are the best friends ever. We go to the same school, he's my classmate. We've been very close throughout the years of our friendship. I've known him for about 4 - 5 years now. We are definetly best buddies. Everything was casual, until I saw some signs and behaviour comming from him. He likes looking at me. Whenever he looks st me, we both smile. I sometimes catch him having a glimpse on me. He likes to get really touchy with me. He sometimes likes to take my hand while we're talking. Every time he sits next to me he kind of sits in a way just so his body would be against mine, always having physical connection with us touching. When we sit at one table, i realise he likes to have both of our legs touching. He likes hugs from me. I can feel him holding me for more than a usual hug. He often makes jokes about him (don't want to make this sound weird) raping me or having sex with me. He doesn't really end it up with a simple "just kidding". He has always been very generous, thoughtful and a sweet guy. He compliments me, brings my low selfesteem up. We both open up to eachother alot. He helped me alot throughout life. I'm a bi male myself. I think I might be a little scared to tell him. Whenever he pulls one of his pervy jokes I would laugh about it, when really i find it okay. We never talked about either of us being bi or gay or whatever. I would feel pretty comfortable telling him, he'd understand, but i don't want to be labeled as bi or gay after that. Well, now, the thing is, he has a girlfriend. Also a classmate of ours. I can see them kiss and be all into eachother. He talks about other girls too, how he was badly inlove and stuff. That really takes me away from the thought that he might be bisexual. However, he does open up to me about his relationship alot. He says it's hard to be inlove with the girl, she seeks for only his attention. He sometimes seems to like my company alot more. Also, i realise he acts the, lets just say, "bisexual" way only when he's with me. I like him. I might be falling for him. Idk. I like things the way they are now, but just for my own curiousity I would like to know. That wouldn't change anything. Maybe only strenghten our friendship/relationship
So yeh. Looking forward to your experience, help, ect.
(Im a male, to start off, lol)
Me and my friend are the best friends ever. We go to the same school, he's my classmate. We've been very close throughout the years of our friendship. I've known him for about 4 - 5 years now. We are definetly best buddies. Everything was casual, until I saw some signs and behaviour comming from him. He likes looking at me. Whenever he looks st me, we both smile. I sometimes catch him having a glimpse on me. He likes to get really touchy with me. He sometimes likes to take my hand while we're talking. Every time he sits next to me he kind of sits in a way just so his body would be against mine, always having physical connection with us touching. When we sit at one table, i realise he likes to have both of our legs touching. He likes hugs from me. I can feel him holding me for more than a usual hug. He often makes jokes about him (don't want to make this sound weird) raping me or having sex with me. He doesn't really end it up with a simple "just kidding". He has always been very generous, thoughtful and a sweet guy. He compliments me, brings my low selfesteem up. We both open up to eachother alot. He helped me alot throughout life. I'm a bi male myself. I think I might be a little scared to tell him. Whenever he pulls one of his pervy jokes I would laugh about it, when really i find it okay. We never talked about either of us being bi or gay or whatever. I would feel pretty comfortable telling him, he'd understand, but i don't want to be labeled as bi or gay after that. Well, now, the thing is, he has a girlfriend. Also a classmate of ours. I can see them kiss and be all into eachother. He talks about other girls too, how he was badly inlove and stuff. That really takes me away from the thought that he might be bisexual. However, he does open up to me about his relationship alot. He says it's hard to be inlove with the girl, she seeks for only his attention. He sometimes seems to like my company alot more. Also, i realise he acts the, lets just say, "bisexual" way only when he's with me. I like him. I might be falling for him. Idk. I like things the way they are now, but just for my own curiousity I would like to know. That wouldn't change anything. Maybe only strenghten our friendship/relationship
So yeh. Looking forward to your experience, help, ect.
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