Hi there . I am new to this forum . I hope you all are having fun. Ok LET THE STORY BEGIN. I went for a meeting a few days ago which spanned the whole day. i had to pee 4 times and the weather was cold. Anytime i went to the toilet , this cute guy would make sure he went to pee in the urinal by my side. He did this 4 times as well. I had to look at his willy as I was horny. He smiled at me in the meeting .At the end of the day I went back to the toilet and i suspected he was going to come and he did. He asked me for a ride to a station while unzipping his trousers. I gave him a ride and asked if we could go and drink. He said it would seem gay. I asked if he had a girlfriend and he said no. He asked me as well. I told him that we met in the loo 4 times and he said it was destiny. Im really confused cos I will see him again for a meeting soon and i don't want to mess around. Any advice.
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This sounds like the start to a porn, it's actually awkward.
It sounds like he's very forwardly hitting on you.
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Firstly it sounds a bit pervy meeting in the toilets. Anyway...
If I was in that position, I'd probably invite him for a few general meets as friends, probably with other friends, and try to gauge his reactions and feelings towards you.
He might just be looking for a friend. Or not.
Reading your post again, it sounds like he might just be interested in sex, not in dating or whatever.
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Lets see what happens again. If he does it again , ill probably give him my contacts directly without asking anything
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this is actually difficult to determine if hes into you. maybe you should give him a handjob? LOL jk dont do that. but you should try seek abit of info on him from (if I read this correctly) others that attend your meetings.
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Wow this is porn material.
You know how porns go from here.
Anywho. This is pretty straight forward on his part. But perhaps hook-up material and nothing more?
What you do next depends on what you're looking for.
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Don't do anything!
Stay in control and suggest nothing that way he will have to make the moves if he is interested?
If you don't like the way it is going you can always call a halt.
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He either wants to fuck your brains out, or he wants you to fuck his brains out.
I seriously doubt that this sort of behavior is indicative of relationship - sex - sure, relationship - No.
So - do you want to a casual sex fling? OR are your seeking romance, dating and a potential relationship?
Allow your wants/needs to decide what you do next.
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Is he gay ? Does he want me ? Have I missed a chance.
