04-09-2014, 01:50 PM
All,
It's me again. 3 weeks back I took your all advice to leave a guy who is 20 years older than me. Since then I have tried my best to communicate with him without any relationship thought except for job-related topics.
I seldom speak to him unless I needed for him verification for some job matters. Both of us are one internal and one external staff in a same department. I have tried several time to avoid him whenever I can, but how come my feelings still thinking about him?
He has 3 kids. Older is 19. I really dont want to hurt his family and myself too.
Thinking about quitting my job is riskier, as this is the 1st job I have since career switch. Recently, I rejected his phone call and avoid him totally thru taking medical leave as lies reason. That matters really annoyed me a lot especially for my job performance.
Please help me. I dont lose my job and also, is there a better way to keep my emotion down or perhaps neutral while I am talking to him like any stranger (without any love feeling)?
It's me again. 3 weeks back I took your all advice to leave a guy who is 20 years older than me. Since then I have tried my best to communicate with him without any relationship thought except for job-related topics.
I seldom speak to him unless I needed for him verification for some job matters. Both of us are one internal and one external staff in a same department. I have tried several time to avoid him whenever I can, but how come my feelings still thinking about him?
He has 3 kids. Older is 19. I really dont want to hurt his family and myself too.
Thinking about quitting my job is riskier, as this is the 1st job I have since career switch. Recently, I rejected his phone call and avoid him totally thru taking medical leave as lies reason. That matters really annoyed me a lot especially for my job performance.
Please help me. I dont lose my job and also, is there a better way to keep my emotion down or perhaps neutral while I am talking to him like any stranger (without any love feeling)?