I have a strange feeling toward my straight friend, it has took almost 4 years since our last 'separation' and I still couldn't move on until this moment.
well, I was close to several gay guys after I stop hanging out with him, I did experience some crushes too, but there's nothing feels like the way I feel about him.
If this what's called as love, it might be my first love, I wonder if this will last forever as what people told me (first love last forever) or I will eventually get rid of this.
What's the longest time you took to move on? And have you totally get rid of your first love?
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It depends.
My first boyfriend and I fought all the time so it was easy but the second one is still a good friend 10 years later.
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My first love is still in my heart, it was a good relationship, but I don't miss him. Just recall him fondly.
Are you sure you can define what you had with your friend as 'romantic love'?
<<< It's mine!
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I discovered my first love died oh sometime last year - I broke my heart... So I guess in a way I didn't move on, even though it has been 20+ years.
I think the difference was that he went to prison (for a very long time) and he 'let me go' instead of have me wait around for him to complete a 25+ year prison sentence. Its not like we fought, or one of us cheated or something.
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I don't know if i'll ever get over him, because when I do see him around we say hi but then old feelings come back.
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My first Love happened when I was in 8th grade, To this day he has been the only person to make me physically feel emotional pain, I mean, those who came after him made me tremble and felt cold when we said good bye, but he make me ache in my chest and feel hollow.
I left him in the past around 6 years later.
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My first love came into my life when I was 24, I fell hard for him I too have dated but nobody has ever made feel close to what I felt for that one, I am now 27 and laugh with my friends about all the dumb things I did for him but im sure i'll get over it any day now haha, I feel like a girl sometimes, you know the type that never get over it while the guy forgets them within 5 min of the relationship being over.
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^^^ you are so close to me I could throw monkey poo and hit ya.... LOL
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I'm still in the process of moving on from what we had. Even though it wasn't a long relationship. But I do know that when I fully move on, he'll still always be in my heart no matter what.
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