Can you fall in love with someone in 1 day?

[Wolfpack]

Maybe a bit early to think that you are 'in love' ,but if you are really attracted to this guy then continue to pursue the relationship if you want to .
Him telling you that he has HIV proves that he is a honest and caring guy,after all he has told you something at great risk to himself as in he new that he could lose you by letting you know about his illness.
HIV can be treated much more effectively theses days,but not cured yet of course.The best thing is to educate yourself more and talk to him about this.
But most of all be safe.

[driftwood]

A few years ago I had a crush on a man who was HIV positive. I saw him a few times at gay bars. We kissed several times, then a couple times he needed a ride home. I jumped at the chance to be alone with him. That was only twice, but each time we made out in the car for a while before parting.

Like your friend, he was concerned about passing the virus. He had given me his phone number, but never answered his phone, and never returned my messages. It's been several years now since I wasn't going to gay bars while in a straight relationship, but I find myself once again hoping I'll bump into him.

There's some good advice in this thread. If you're careful enough the risk can be minimized. I think you already knew most of that. Convincing him is the hard part. I don't have any advice there, I can only commiserate. Of course you need to respect his decision, but how could you leave him alone. Maybe with a little luck you can talk him out of it.