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OK so my roommate is up in Lake Tahoe for the last couple days visiting his girlfriend and I have had the place to myself. I told my BF this hoping he would get the hint so we have a little..........um intimate alone time. We both own our own separate businesses and we have both been working a lot lately so spare time is very rare. I understand this. What I don't understand is why he takes the time to update his tumblr blog (porn) that probably took him about an hour or so to do instead of coming over and getting the real thing. I am 10 miles away for goodness sake! No offence but I would always prefer the real thing over porn. Oh well his loss. I guess I will just watch TV and crack open a adult refreshment beverage instead. Sorry just needed to vent. Thanks for listening. Paul
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Coming from personal experiences with guys and their porn, as well as the whole drama that circulates within social media; I believe relationships should stay off of them - if he has a porn blog, let him have it.
In any case, if he'd rather update his tumblr porn blog than see you, that's his loss. Not yours.
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I think some times the porn aspect becomes more real because its easier to access. Mixing it with a social media type of program I guess could become very addictive and make him want to update just like how people want to update Facebook and twitter!
Its definitely his loss though and I don't really understand why someone would turn down the real thing for images or videos haha. Its always fun to vent, So don't apologise for that!!
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What!!!!! Decline real sex for a porn blog!!!!! The BF needs to get his priorities straightened out..
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He is the one that's going to lose out in the long run,porn cannot and will not fulfill someone the way a real person can.
Perhaps play around a little with him ( after that is what he has done to you ) tell him all the things you would have got upto together all the things he missed out of,all the pleasure you would have given him,he might think differently next time.
If not point him towards the door.
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God I wish I could have a man to ignore in my life... I so miss being in a relationship....
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Bowyn Aerrow Wrote:God I wish I could have a man to ignore in my life... I so miss being in a relationship....
Whats stopping you from being in one? Other than finding someone!
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His Loss!!
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