Is my bf really gay?

[ceez]

ok, so I'm responding late to this and I'm feeling lazy today so I didn't read all the post except for the first of course so don't hate me if someone has said this already. I'm a lot like your bf, I'm masculine into masculine things but I am also attracted to feminine guys (actually any kind of guy at this point). I do however don't mind being on bottom since I am versatile and I'm not really into having who I'm sleeping with dress in drag. everyone is going to be a little different and have weird turn-ons, mine (don't laugh) is socks, I think guys are freakin hot that have nothing on but socks, I have nothing against feet, but socks are hot :biggrin: so there. but as long as your relationship is still going smoothly and he treats you right then I wouldn't worry about it, you are who he is dating at the moment and should be his main focus.

[matty7]

if your boyfriends not gay then he's playing the best straight hand ive ever seen

[dowhatchuwant10]

OP, after some searching, it seems you've posted this same question on a half a dozen different websites, and have been for some time. Verbatim. What's your deal, bro? Do you really have a BF? Or are so insecure that you have to broadcast your boyfriend's proclivities to anyone who will listen as some sort of warped self-validation? You may think there's something wrong with him, but let me tell you who has the problem: YOU.

Maybe instead of posting this same, repetitive question on every corner of the Internet, you should be a man and have a conversation with your alleged boyfriend. Ask HIM theses questions, and get HIS answers. You come across as incredibly insecure, immature, and petty, with your child-like inability to empathize, and accept sexual interests you don't have.

We've given you the answers, as have others on all these other websites, and your response is the same: you just don't get it, and continue to ask the same shit over and over again. You should be ashamed of yourself for acting in such a childish, mentally stubborn manner. There are people here for legitimate questions and support, and your little narcissistic games belittle and make a mockery of them. Grow up.

Omg.. first of all I can ask what i want, and you have no right to judge me for it. Its not one question I have asked its many that are related to it, whats wrong in me wanting to find advice from different people on different sites. And I HAVE talked to him like I said i will. He's the first person I've ever gone out with, whats wrong in me asking people for advice online, I didn't wanna ask these questions to my boyfriend and seem like a childish, stubborn and unreasonable person. I don't care about what you think of me. Maybe I am insecure, immature and petty but i am not narcissistic and i have only posted it on gay support forums, not all over the internet as you seem to think.

[dowhatchuwant10]

I have already talked about this to my bf, and ive mentioned that already.

[dowhatchuwant10]

Maybe I am insecure, petty and immature but I am not narcissistic.

[dowhatchuwant10]

If I have posted this same question on other lgbt support forums whats it to you? Looking at other peoples views has opened my mind and surely that can only be a good thing.

[dowhatchuwant10]

I was also trying to decide what forum is best to use, in terms of advice because in some forums you dont get responses . Sorry for asking the same dumb questions haha.

[driftwood]

Omg.. first of all I can ask what i want, and you have no right to judge me for it... whats wrong in me wanting to find advice from different people on different sites...

Absolutely nothing wrong with that! Get as much input as you can.

As far as your original post goes, I wouldn't worry about whether he's gay, or whether he's attracted to women. He's into you, and that's what's important. And if you wearing panties & stockings would turn both of you on, that's great.

As far as referring to your ass as "boy pussy" if I were you, that would turn me on big time. To each his own. If you don't like it, tell him. You're certainly allowed to have your preferences, and I'm sure he will respect them.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

congratulations and welcome to the world of BDSM where your hubby definitely is trying to humiliate and emasculate you.

This isn't about male/female gender roles, this is about taking you and molding you to become as submissive as he can make you. Part of that is to rip away the facade of masculinity you have and replace it with the more docile effeminate man you clearly desire to be.

Calling your arse 'boy pussy', having you wear woman's clothing is not about his desire to be with a woman, its all about his desire to dominate you and remind you that you are his to dominate.

Either submit to his will and be a good boy, or break away and become your own man.

[MikeIsNotPG]

no guys on this site like feminine guys? sorry but your soooooooooo wrong on that one. I love feminine guys and dont particularly like masculine guys. I love a guy who isnt overly "over-powering" or like the standard guy stuff cause I click with femininity and if youve been around for a while, you'd see how much Im into these feminine guys and girly stuff.

but now to your problem.

why you questioning him? a straight guy would be disgusted and disturbed by sleeping with another guy.

Can confirm. Love feminine guys.