Is my bf really gay?

[chillythoughts]

whats wrong with lingerie panties and women clothing? I wear that stuff outside of the bedroom and I swear Im not transgendered. lol

[dowhatchuwant10]

whats wrong with lingerie panties and women clothing? I wear that stuff outside of the bedroom and I swear Im not transgendered. lol

Do you believe in the whole opposites attract thing?

[dowhatchuwant10]

whats wrong with lingerie panties and women clothing? I wear that stuff outside of the bedroom and I swear Im not transgendered. lol

Would that make u a crossdresser?

[chillythoughts]

what do you mean by opposites attract? and yes it would.

[Mark]

Do you believe in the whole opposites attract thing?

Opposites definitely attract. Dating someone the same as you would just be boring :p You need challenges and to discover new things to keep it fresh

[dowhatchuwant10]

what do you mean by opposites attract? and yes it would.

Apparently being a cross dresser puts you on the transgender umbrella (although i wouldn't agree)

[chillythoughts]

Apparently being a cross dresser puts you on the transgender umbrella (although i wouldn't agree)

not necessarily. transgender means you identify with the opposite sex you were born in. Im just a crossdresser. I dont identify with being a woman.

[dowhatchuwant10]

not necessarily. transgender means you identify with the opposite sex you were born in. Im just a crossdresser. I dont identify with being a woman.

I just wish one day femininity wont be seen as inferior to masculinity.

[Tulloni]

Personally I would be seriously creeped out if I was seeing a guy who used language like 'boy pussy', I am not at all comfortable with those words. Sorry but that really does sound like American street language which unsettles me. I mean to be fair I am sure they're plenty of horrible British equivalents out there as well so I guess that doesn't matter..

But anyway I digress, I wouldn't let a guy use words like that with me I would be quite uncomfortable with it. I am quite unusual in that I absolutely hate macho behaviour and cocky men who feel the need to dominate but at the same time I am sort of turned on by men being a bit rough with me so I have mixed feelings. But outside of the bedroom it doesn't do anything for me at all.

It's possible your bf has bisexual tendencies. But I am sure he really loves you. Still though if he does something you're uncomfortable with or says something bad, don't be afraid to tell him. I know its hard if he's big and tough but at the end of the day you need to speak up otherwise it'll never end!

[dowhatchuwant10]

Personally I would be seriously creeped out if I was seeing a guy who used language like 'boy pussy', I am not at all comfortable with those words. Sorry but that really does sound like American street language which unsettles me. I mean to be fair I am sure they're plenty of horrible British equivalents out there as well so I guess that doesn't matter..

But anyway I digress, I wouldn't let a guy use words like that with me I would be quite uncomfortable with it. I am quite unusual in that I absolutely hate macho behaviour and cocky men who feel the need to dominate but at the same time I am sort of turned on by men being a bit rough with me so I have mixed feelings. But outside of the bedroom it doesn't do anything for me at all.

It's possible your bf has bisexual tendencies. But I am sure he really loves you. Still though if he does something you're uncomfortable with or says something bad, don't be afraid to tell him. I know its hard if he's big and tough but at the end of the day you need to speak up otherwise it'll never end!

Why do you think its possible he has bisexual tendencies?