Was I Being Unreasonable?

[ChadCoxRox]

There you go he asked again lol... and here's your answer

General biological composition of human feces


Most of feces are, by dry weight, bacteria (30%), undigested food and fiber (30%), fat (10%-20%), inorganic matter( 10-20%), other protein(2-3%). (reference)

Bacterial portion contains proteins (amino acids - yes the same proteins you will find in sperm) and other types of molecules. the inorganic matter includes bilins which are part of the used up hemoglobin from red blood cells which have been retired.

There's also a lot of variation from one sample to the next - 10% seems pretty common here as you can imagine). What makes feces so dangerous is the bacterial portion, which can pose quite a health risk. So no shit isn't chocolate... and now more for your curiosity.

Normally, feces are made up of 75 percent water and 25 percent solid matter. About 30 percent of the solid matter consists of dead bacteria; about 30 percent consists of indigestible food matter such as cellulose; 10 to 20 percent is cholesterol and other fats; 10 to 20 percent is inorganic substances such as calcium phosphate and iron phosphate; and 2 to 3 percent is protein. Cell debris shed from the mucous membrane of the intestinal tract also passes in the waste material, as do bile pigments (bilirubin) and dead leukocytes (white blood cells). The brown colour of feces is due to the action of bacteria on bilirubin, which is the end product of the breakdown of hemoglobin (red blood cells). The odour of feces is caused by the chemicals indole, skatole, hydrogen sulfide, and mercaptans, which are produced by bacterial action.

Chemical in feces:

Nitrogen - chemical from food that was eaten
Compounds, compounds of sodium, calcium, most nutrient element, water
Chloroform bacteria, flavonids (Vitamin P) and bile.

So now you do know that human feces is Toxic... however if you have a spoon full of shit in your mouth it's likely to make you sick but not deadly.

Shit goes in the toilet or behind a tree in the forest... it's not a sunday, and it shouldn't be rubbed on human skin as sun block.

You asked you got it sorry for talking shit... but biology is one of my study and I'm super interested. So CCRox what will be your next question? Vomit, Boogers? Hahahaha... sorry if you were eating lunch lol.

Oh myyyyy. And I thought Bo would lay it out there.!.!.
Great Scott! So when I see dudes in porn who sell their professional persona (not just in a particular flick but across the board in the whole industry) many portray themselves as decent, intelligent professionals with their craft. Yet I see them performing repeated oral and anal. Surely to GOD there's more to it than enemas and "take your chances!!" Listen, there's no way I'd pull my cock out of a man's bum and stick into his mouth and of course there's no way that would fly the other way around either! So I'm still baffled. Now I've gotta go survey some porn stars!!! LOL

[BobInTampa]

Unfortunately, we're only getting ONE side of the story! Now, don't everyone get their panties in a wad, i'm nog going to attack Writerbee, however, i hope he learns an important lesson about DATING and COMMUNICATION.

I find it VERY hard to believe that his ex's "sexual fetish" discussion came as a big surprise. Most guys who have active and strong sexual fetishes are pretty open and upfront about it. I'm betting that Writerbee was VERY attracted to him physically and also his public personality. I'm also betting, as they started dating, that he could "manage" his boyfriends sexual fetish desires - but his BF was firm in his communication that he wanted a partner who would actively participate in fetish sessions.

If this is true, then Writerbee can't be really surprised that the relationship ended so abruptly.

What I hope he WOULD learn is that supporting a partner's fetish (and it isn't always sexual) is part of what it means to be in an LTR. Now, let me be clear, compromise goes both ways. The problem with many guys who have strong fetish desires, actually CAN'T engage in sexual intimacy WITHOUT some sort of fetish (watersports, spanking, spit, fisting, etc) - and if you're NOT looking for that kind of sexual relationship with a guy, then it's best that it ends sooner than later.

However, many MORE gay men with sexual fetishs want to integrate those fetishes into the overall sex sessions.

What does that mean? Well, Writerbee should have said, "Wow, that's pretty wild stuff, i've never done anything like that but if you're willing to be patient with me, i'm willing to try it - but if i don't enjoy it, i hope you'll respect that and not feel that i'm being prudish."

Then, the conversation needs to be flipped, and Writerbee should make it clear what HE wants as part of a healthy and happy sex life, and say something like, "So, while we're on the subject of turn-ons, for me, it's all about affection, intimacy, romance and passion - i like alot of holding, kissing and when we are having sex i want to feel deep love."

Now, everything's on the table and the couple can decide if there's enough compatibility.

Love to hear what others have to say.