What's on Your Mind

[Bhp91126]

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Lol, I think we just experienced how a troll is born into the forums.

This was more of a still-birth




or an afterbirth trying to become sentient.

[nullnaught]

i was abused as a child and trying to come to terms with it at age 47. Now.

[LJay]

Marky, the reason why sex is not often mentioned is that it is assumed to be background noise in all thoughts. Besides, you don't want to hear me weeping and wailing constantly.

[LJay]

i was abused as a child and trying to come to terms with it at age 47. Now.

At least you are dealing with it. Get to a good counselor and work it out. You will be better for it. Good luck.

[Evito]

Its not. Marky. But starting over can be exciting.

I'm sorry to hear this Evito. You deserved better treatment than that.

As much as you don't want to hear it, you need to move on. Give yourself time to grieve, so cry when you want, and try to maintain a sense of dignity. Keep up your appearance, be clean-shaven and shower daily, brush those teeth.

As you continue to take pride in yourself, it will help your self-esteem.

Thanks I am trying. This is the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with in my life. It is like a death. Well it is, the death of a marriage.

[showme]

Thanks. I found out that he was seeing this 24 year old for 6 months before he told me he was having a midlife crisis and wanted to separate. While I thought he was working late or going to the gym he was renting hotels rooms and going to dinner with the young stud. No wonder his body wasn't improving and he was getting heavier. I am 52 years old and this guy is 24 years old. My other half will be 50. For 27 years I thought I was happily married. It seemed so comfortable. With our families and friends. Now the friends are all weird about it. Like they don't know who to be friends with. We were legally married in California about 6 years ago. I wake up thinking I had a bad dream and then I see the bed is empty and realize that it is reality.

I am so sorry. I'm at about the same number of years into my relationship, so I know exactly how this must feel.

[AlohaShannon]

Im surprised nobody has said the obvious.. whats on my mind? Sex

What a coincidence Marky, ME TOO!!!

[Uneunsae]

I'm lonely and haven't been touched or held in 4 years.

[James]

hmm,mind, now where did I put that, ah yes, in the box next to the trash

[AlohaShannon]

I'm lonely and haven't been touched or held in 4 years.

That's a tough one Uneunsae. We are relational beings and it's not easy to go without physical contact. I guess the only thing I can think of is how wonderful it will be once this 4 year stretch ends. Keeping you in my thoughts my friend.