What's on Your Mind

[Meebs]

I've got to move on

[LJay]

I have a lot of cooking to do this week!!!

What's cookin'? You having a block party or what?

[ceez]

I finally have alcohol again yaaaay!

[valkyrie4488]

Thinking about a possible new bass with active pickups, and if I'll ever be able to improve my playing. lol

[Insertnamehere]

What's cookin'?

Meth and other various products? Maybe? :eek: :biggrin: :eek:

Ok, back to my normal serious self.

My legs have been getting kicked in the......thighs.... methinks it's time to find work outs focusing on other parts for the remainder of the week.

[himself]

I went on a 'date', yesterday. The boy asked me last week and I said yes. I don't really like him (he is nice, though). I didn't really want to kiss him because he seems like he has gum disease but I did let him, for a bit. I don't have great teeth, myself, but the thought of kissing him is kind of stressing me out. I don't want to hurt his feelings (or maybe I don't want other people to see me hurt his feelings - I don't know). He met him a few months ago. He did say that he thought I was odd . He also tried to touch me in public. I said no but I think I might have sounded a bit short with him. I didn't want anyone to see us. We did cuddle, afterwards. I tried to be enthusiastic.

[Insertnamehere]

I went on a 'date', yesterday. The boy asked me last week and I said yes. I don't really like him (he is nice, though). I didn't really want to kiss him because he seems like he has gum disease but I did let him, for a bit. I don't have great teeth, myself, but the thought of kissing him is kind of stressing me out. I don't want to hurt his feelings (or maybe I don't want other people to see me hurt his feelings - I don't know). He met him a few months ago. He did say that he thought I was odd . He also tried to touch me in public. I said no but I think I might have sounded a bit short with him. I didn't want anyone to see us. We did cuddle, afterwards. I tried to be enthusiastic.

If you're not interested, the sooner you're honest with him about it, the less hurtful for him in the end.

"Being polite" only makes it worse.

You could of course go on a second date and see if yout thoughts change.

[matty7]

I think I found that relaxed sweet mind spot.

Ban you teach that had a cracking headache at work again so finding a relaxing anything would have been helpful - Just had a big bowl of ice-cream though...it did make me happier im sure

[himself]

If you're not interested, the sooner you're honest with him about it, the less hurtful for him in the end.

"Being polite" only makes it worse.

You could of course go on a second date and see if yout thoughts change.

You're right. I can see this snowballing so I should sort it out as soon as possible. I have to come up with some sort of explanation. I think, in any other circumstances, I would want to be able to change my mind but I am a bit physically repulsed by parts of him. Many people find me repulsive so I feel like I should get off my high horse but I can't help feeling repulsed.

[Insertnamehere]

You're right. I can see this snowballing so I should sort it out as soon as possible. I have to come up with some sort of explanation. I think, in any other circumstances, I would want to be able to change my mind but I am a bit physically repulsed by parts of him. Many people find me repulsive so I feel like I should get off my high horse but I can't help feeling repulsed.

When the attraction is not there, then it's not there. No one can blame you for that.

No need to point those specific things out of course, but you can start with the simple idea "I'm not interested" and work your way from there.

Ban you teach that had a cracking headache at work again so finding a relaxing anything would have been helpful - Just had a big bowl of ice-cream though...it did make me happier im sure

It's simple. You reach the point of not giving a shit about anything anymore.