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Zen Wrote:Having dropped the B bomb (Bi!) last year, I think it's time to drop the G bomb. Friends have noticed a distinct lack of my usual jovial nature of late and know why that is. My wife can tell I'm not myself. Don't think I can keep this going forever. More out of feeling bad for her and giving her a chance to absorb that in my case, Bi was the water tester, for Gay.
Think I will talk with her this evening.
Well, wish me luck!! If you don't hear from me for a while it'll be because I'm in a bed-sit crying into my pot noodle with no internet connection!!
All the best buddy. Only time will tell how she and others will take it, but for your happiness and long term mental wellbeing, and for her happiness too, this is the best option. We're always here if you need to release your thoughts/vent/advice! X
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IanSaysHi Wrote:All the best buddy. Only time will tell how she and others will take it, but for your happiness and long term mental wellbeing, and for her happiness too, this is the best option. We're always here if you need to release your thoughts/vent/advice! X
Cheers mate! You couldn't be a dear and hold my hand for me!!Haha! You're so right mate, I've got a few hours til she's home! #psyche-up
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Wishing the best for both of you, [MENTION=24253]Zen[/MENTION]. Good vibes and strength being cast in the direction of your whole family.
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LJay Wrote:Wishing the best for both of you, [MENTION=24253]Zen[/MENTION]. Good vibes and strength being cast in the direction of your whole family.
Thanks mate, much appreciated :-)
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Zen Wrote:Having dropped the B bomb (Bi!) last year, I think it's time to drop the G bomb. Friends have noticed a distinct lack of my usual jovial nature of late and know why that is. My wife can tell I'm not myself. Don't think I can keep this going forever. More out of feeling bad for her and giving her a chance to absorb that in my case, Bi was the water tester, for Gay.
Think I will talk with her this evening.
Well, wish me luck!! If you don't hear from me for a while it'll be because I'm in a bed-sit crying into my pot noodle with no internet connection!!
Good luck Zen! It's clearly gnawing away at you so best to get it off your chest and let her know where your mind is.
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Bookworm Wrote:Good luck Zen! It's clearly gnawing away at you so best to get it off your chest and let her know where your mind is.
Cheers buddy! You're right, think the settling period has now happened and things are clearer now. Cheers mate :-)
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Best wishes [MENTION=24253]Zen[/MENTION] mate. You're right, it will be better for all of you in the long run, and your wife has been very understanding so far. There will probably be tears and anger, but with time you and hopefully your family will be thankful that everything is out in the open. Good luck mr 
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Cridders88 Wrote:Best wishes [MENTION=24253]Zen[/MENTION] mate. You're right, it will be better for all of you in the long run, and your wife has been very understanding so far. There will probably be tears and anger, but with time you and hopefully your family will be thankful that everything is out in the open. Good luck mr
Cheers buddy! Just looking for the right moment! If there is such a thing?
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Zen Wrote:Having dropped the B bomb (Bi!) last year, I think it's time to drop the G bomb. Friends have noticed a distinct lack of my usual jovial nature of late and know why that is. My wife can tell I'm not myself. Don't think I can keep this going forever. More out of feeling bad for her and giving her a chance to absorb that in my case, Bi was the water tester, for Gay.
Think I will talk with her this evening.
Well, wish me luck!! If you don't hear from me for a while it'll be because I'm in a bed-sit crying into my pot noodle with no internet connection!!
Let us know how it goes
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I truly am wishing you much luck and courage [MENTION=24253]Zen[/MENTION]..
Like cridders said it will be better for all of you in the long run... Might not seem that way at first but be patient! Much love send your way!
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