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What's on Your Mind
@ceez Keep going if you can. Some therapists can do sliding scales, allow you to pay when you can, etc. If the therapist is helping you then keep going. Dr. Daniels isn't very good at his job and will most certainly make things worse.

Here's the thing about drinking. It's fine if you do it every once in a while, say once a week, have a few drinks, get a lil buzz, relax a little, etc. If it takes an entire bottle of Jack to get you there then that might be a problem. I don't know, not judging, just something to be aware of and to have control over. Not promoting drugs or illegal things but if weed is legal in your state/country, might be a better alternative aside from the smoking part. Bottom line is, anything can become a problem, food, weed, alcohol, whatever it is. People say oh you can't get addicted to weed, oh yes you can and it became central to my life for a few years and it kind of messed me up for a while.

That all being said, do what is best for you for the long game. If therapy works, keep doing it, work something out with the therapist if you can, be careful about vices like alcohol, even something seemingly harmless like pot can be a problem. We're all here if you ever feel like talking too, my door is always open.
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(09-15-2020, 05:32 AM)LJay Wrote: @ceez From what I hear Dr. Daniel has taken down his shingle and is now only involved in nonprofessional pursuits. Perhaps you should contact your therapist for at least one more session to discuss the alternatives.

(09-15-2020, 11:01 AM)InbetweenDreams Wrote: @ceez Keep going if you can. Some therapists can do sliding scales, allow you to pay when you can, etc. If the therapist is helping you then keep going. Dr. Daniels isn't very good at his job and will most certainly make things worse.

Here's the thing about drinking. It's fine if you do it every once in a while, say once a week, have a few drinks, get a lil buzz, relax a little, etc. If it takes an entire bottle of Jack to get you there then that might be a problem. I don't know, not judging, just something to be aware of and to have control over. Not promoting drugs or illegal things but if weed is legal in your state/country, might be a better alternative aside from the smoking part. Bottom line is, anything can become a problem, food, weed, alcohol, whatever it is. People say oh you can't get addicted to weed, oh yes you can and it became central to my life for a few years and it kind of messed me up for a while.

That all being said, do what is best for you for the long game. If therapy works, keep doing it, work something out with the therapist if you can, be careful about vices like alcohol, even something seemingly harmless like pot can be a problem. We're all here if you ever feel like talking too, my door is always open.

I have been drinking less since I started therapy again, now I just do it on days when depression/anxiety get bad. I did enjoy peice of a cookie with a "special" ingredient in it and it was nice to wake up without a headache and my stomach in knots.

Thanks guys
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(09-14-2020, 04:47 PM)IanSaysHi Wrote: Going through a period where everything seems to be on my mind. It got a bit too much last week and only by a conversation forced on me did I realise I’d cut off talking to nearest and dearest. Whenever things get a bit too much I tend to just go into some isolation bubble when really I need to talk to people.

When you really don’t want to talk to people, sometimes it means you really need to.
Congrats. It seems that you have people around you who know you, understand when something is off and can help you deal with whatever is bothering you. Hope you’re feeling better since the conversation.
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No more Twitter porn for me, apparently you can post anything there like gay racist neo-nazi porn. I mean, how screwed up in the head do you have to be to get into that shit.
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I didn't even know twitter porn was a thing.
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Just wanted to share this, I thought some of you may find it amusing.


I have friends who each year at Christmas time, put together one of those Christmas villages.

Sort of like this.


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I get invited to their annual Christmas party, and I try to find something odd to put in the village when they're not looking, and they always find it days later, and call me to laugh.  One year I put little figures called "homies" into the village.  They were small figures that were made to look like gang members, street walkers, and such.

Another year, I found zombies to put into the village.


I just found these this year on FB, posted to a friend's page.  I HAVE TO buy them and put them in the village next year, as I assume that we won't be having the party this year.


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Once again my job is sending me to another department where I get stuck lifting heavy shit all day which is exactly how I threw my back out last year and there's nothing I can do about it. Not legally anyway
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(09-18-2020, 05:58 PM)CellarDweller Wrote: Just wanted to share this, I thought some of you may find it amusing.


I have friends who each year at Christmas time, put together one of those Christmas villages.

Sort of like this.


[Image: How-to-Create-a-Christmas-Village-Display-20.jpg]



I get invited to their annual Christmas party, and I try to find something odd to put in the village when they're not looking, and they always find it days later, and call me to laugh.  One year I put little figures called "homies" into the village.  They were small figures that were made to look like gang members, street walkers, and such.

Another year, I found zombies to put into the village.


I just found these this year on FB, posted to a friend's page.  I HAVE TO buy them and put them in the village next year, as I assume that we won't be having the party this year.


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