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I'm a : Single Gay Man
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Hey guys I got a couple of guys I'm thinking of dating but I'm never to sure what to do when this happens, as last year I got a terribly wrong and ended up sleeping with both of the guys I was dating and I got the messages wrong and they found out and all hell broke lose lol!
What do you do with multiple dates?
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When I was single, it was always clear that there was no commitments or expectations until the point of there being a mutual decision. Make this clear and there should be no problems. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly twelve years, but when we first started dating, I went on dates with a couple other guys until my boyfriend and I both agreed we were seeing each other exclusively.
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Just keep it at a friendly level with everyone involved until you hopefully click with one of them. I've had that happen once before... I didn't plan it like that but two guys wanted to hang out with me and I really couldn't turn them down haha honestly though I had a preference, so I just let the one guy know that I wanted to be "just friends", which was fair because we were just hanging out. I mean, he talked non-stop... I could barely get a word in, and when I did he would just relate whatever I was saying to himself and go on another verbal spree. He was kind of annoying...
I mean, isn't that what dating is for? You get to know whether that person is right or not. Don't take things too fast with anyone I guess.
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When I met my current lover..I had a "stable" LOL...seven different regular guys I was f*cking....most once a week ..one was once a month and one was 3-4 times a week....I was tired....
How did I handle it?...straight up told the truth to all of them...and when met my lover...I had to tell them all we couldn't f*ck anymore....I told my lover too that I was having sex regularly with seven different guys...it turned him on which was good because I can't handle jealousy much after an unfortunate run with really possessive guys early on...
Alot of people will disagree but I think telling the truth is the best course of actions. If one (or more) of the guys can't handle the truth then let them go....
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East = I like you because u tell the truth, and one day ill get from under my rock and have lots of sex too haha ...ill bee so lucky
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I'm a : Gay Man in an Open Gay Relationship
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Wash your sheets between dates!
And tell each date, that, until there's mutually agreed upon exclusivity, there's competition.
Enjoy!
Bernd
Being gay is not for Sissies.
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lol . I wish had the chance to mucky my sheets ...but im not giving up
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