Confused

[Black]

I'm straight but and I love women but Its time for a change I've been in plenty of relationships with plenty if women but idk it feels like I'm not getting anything from it So I would love to be in a relationship with a nice buff handsome guy to see how it is and if I would love it advice is needed

[Borg69]

Perhaps you've over simplified things to a point where I'm having a hard time following you...

You're bored with women, so on a whim you thought you'd give guys a try???

Usually the gay/bi-curious guys have some inkling that they are indeed turned on by, and attracted to other men - physically at least, and hopefully some degree of emotionally as well. They think about guys while masturbating, and/or will frequently watch gay porn...

Do you think you're attracted to men? While I don't think they're exactly the best places to meet other guys, I see with Google there are several gay bars in your city. Perhaps you could hang out in a couple and see how you feel being around other gay men?

wx3 .yellowpages.com/jersey-city-nj/gay-bars

[ETOTE]

Hello Black,

Welcome to the GS forums.

Could you expand a bit on what you mean by "I'm not getting anything from it" regarding your relationships with women?

One thing to consider is sexuality imo, is very complex and not so black and white as many like to think (ha, I make a funny!).

What is compelling your desire to be with a man aside from thinking a relationship with a man may yield better EMOTIONAL results. Is there a sexual attraction and desire there?

Tell us more about what's been going on.