hands free orgasms during penetration?

[LucasVonSeattle]

Have you been able to do that with a partner while being penetrated?

Yes I have and my partner said it was amazing for him. I don't bottom very often, but I was feeling like being penetrated at the time. The cool thing is, the 3 or 4 times I've bottomed and worked my muscles in that way, my partner and I have cum at the same time.

[Pixiebells]

I was going to start a thread for my question but it's close enough that I'll ask here.

Guys, is it technically possible that with really amazing sex (you're the one being f*cked in this question,) to have it be good enough that you could potentially come without actually being touched there? Just wondering.

[Virge]

I was going to start a thread for my question but it's close enough that I'll ask here.

Guys, is it technically possible that with really amazing sex (you're the one being f*cked in this question,) to have it be good enough that you could potentially come without actually being touched there? Just wondering.

That's what we're talking about... "hands free orgasms"........ OH YES.... My BF and I discovered by accident and did it two years before knowing what is was called or that others experienced it (we asked some guys but never met any for a long time) So far he hasn't been able to do it to me by just penetration like I can to him.

Also once we talked with an expert MD on it he told us about how orgasms and ejaculations are two completely separate nerve functions that aren't even related to each other. He gave us exercises and routines to go through to get our bodies conditioned to separate orgasms from ejaculations. The "dry" orgasms are way more intense and longer than the "wet" ones. Also once a guy has a wet orgasm he has to go through a rest period to have another.

With "dry orgasms" there's no limit. If he and I pay attention to what we're doing and not get in a hurry I can give him s-e-v-e-r-a-l dry orgasms if I'm on top. If I'm on bottom, face up and he's riding me and in control I can use an small plastic Aneros sex toy in my anus that all I have to do is twitch my sphincter muscles around to have a few dry orgasms before a wet one. So far the most I've had is four and that was only once. Usually I have two in that position and can just about always time them when I feel him begin one.

One more thing. "Dry orgasms" aren't really completely dry but produce loads of "precum." To give you an idea of how much I'm talking about, I can get into position as if I'm ready to penetrate him, the head of my penis against his anus and have a dry orgasm using the Aneros and lube him up in the process of having an a dry orgasm.

We're going to start doing our best to teach all this to other guys starting next year when he moves in with me. The biggest obstacle we've run into is too many guys are into routines of sex acts that from the beginning of foreplay to the end are less than 30 minutes. For us usually sex is a one or two hour thing and sometimes longer.

[Wade]

You can get a "starter" Ameros for around $40.00. They cost that much because the all come in nice boxes and have a real good instruction book . I have 2 other than my 1st Mangasm Alpha and I still prefer it --------- I use it to have dry orgasms rather than ejaculating just like in the link I gave up top. I can usually get two hard hard hard orgasms in 15-20 minutes and fall asleep like I've been given drugs.

Also I like my Alpha in my when I'm topping my BF... I can work the Alpha with my sphincter muscles while he's riding me and have a dry orgasm that way too...

When you buy one you can get into jerking off with your Ameros in you... That's not good. You need to do the exercises and relax then learn to operate the Ameros with your sphincter muscles not using your hands. You're conditioning your body to that pleasure... So try not to jerk off while your doing the Ameros.

Jesus Christ... you're like a wise Santa Claus for gay men.... I like you.

[Virge]

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Hold on! I have a santa cap and reindeer somewhere!

I suggest everyone google for info and feel free to ask questions.

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aneros orgasms [/SIZE] there are some videos but if you're expecting porny stuff you'll be disappointed.
Here's a link to a guy who has 2 small and 3 BIG dry orgasms before he jacks off in 10 minutes. Watch the aneros move as he flexes his sphincter muscles and that he doesn't have an erection when he starts. Also watch the intensity of the dry orgasms as related to the wet one.
http://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=gay+...ORM=VQFRAT

[AlfredM]

I've heard of hands free orgasm before from a gay movie,Strapped,and been wondering since. MMO or dry orgasm (or retrograde ejaculation) on the other hand,well,I've heard of it as well,but I got the impression that guys who have dry orgasm have a bit problem to ejaculate normally,since the sperm was redirected to the urinary bladder,and this causes infertility in men. It's also one of the long-term side effect when you try to hold off your orgasm by pressing perineum,the spot between your testes and anus.

Frankly,this is the only reason I'm still opening to anal sex,especially bottoming. But how do I decide if I am after all not into anal sex,perhaps I'm not sensitive at all down there,or I just haven't met a good top? :confused:

[Virge]

I've heard of hands free orgasm before from a gay movie,Strapped,and been wondering since. MMO or dry orgasm (or retrograde ejaculation) on the other hand,well,I've heard of it as well,but I got the impression that guys who have dry orgasm have a bit problem to ejaculate normally,since the sperm was redirected to the urinary bladder,and this causes infertility in men. It's also one of the long-term side effect when you try to hold off your orgasm (NOT orgasm but ejaculation) by pressing perineum,the spot between your testes and anus.

Frankly,this is the only reason I'm still opening to anal sex,especially bottoming. But how do I decide if I am after all not into anal sex,perhaps I'm not sensitive at all down there,or I just haven't met a good top? :confused:

Retrograde ejaculation are not an issue with this according to the urologist we talked to last year...and my dad, also an MD agrees. But I am glad you brought it up. No sperm are involved in dry orgasms as sperm moving from the testes in preparation for ejaculation is a completely separate set of nerves than the nerves that control orgasms. They are two completely separate functions that men grow up associating as soon as they have their first orgasm. It takes a bit of practice and time to get the body to "learn" this.

See the correction I made in your text in red type.

You probably think you're not sensitive down there because you've not met a guy to help you experience it yet. A good top will want to do foreplay to help you become aroused from his attention "down there". Most guys just want to stick it in and do their thing and be done. That's the wrong wrong way.

[AlfredM]

...See the correction I made in your text in red type.

You probably think you're not sensitive down there because you've not met a guy to help you experience it yet. A good top will want to do foreplay to help you become aroused from his attention "down there". Most guys just want to stick it in and do their thing and be done. That's the wrong wrong way.

Ah,sorry,my mistake,yeah,it's not holding off orgasm,but ejaculation. So I suppose this dry orgasm you're saying has nothing to do with pressing perineum,so no side effect in the long term?

Actually,it's not that I think I'm not sensitive down there,it was more of a 'which will it be and how do I identify it' question,since I've never had an intercourse yet. I do agree on the later part,and I find anal sex (or any sex) very very boring with no foreplay.

[Virge]

Ah,sorry,my mistake,yeah,it's not holding off orgasm,but ejaculation. So I suppose this dry orgasm you're saying has nothing to do with pressing perineum,so no side effect in the long term?

Actually,it's not that I think I'm not sensitive down there,it was more of a 'which will it be and how do I identify it' question,since I've never had an intercourse yet. I do agree on the later part,and I find anal sex (or any sex) very very boring with no foreplay.

The Aneros is equipped with an external arm to put pressure on the perineum, the muscles of that area and even the prostate from a 2nd angle. (see below)

As for sensitivity "down there" there's no way you can even imagine it until you have a top "rim" you, (oral contact with the anal area). It's impossible to describe what it's like but it's always guaranteed to give you chill bumps from head to toe no matter how many times you've experience it. Rimming is one thing I never get tired of doing for my partner and he never gets tired of me doing it!

[supasyd]

Im a bottom and honestly I never get full orgasms I do get off on it though