About having sex.

[Rumble88]

No he's pretty gentle, im pretty small compared to him and im having difficulties taking it but he goes easy on me.

[Virge]

here are some other links here to help you with answers.
http://gayspeak.com/showthread.php?t=32450
http://gayspeak.com/showthread.php?t=32104
http://gayspeak.com/showthread.php?t=32298
http://gayspeak.com/showthread.php?t=32092

[Borg69]

You shouldn't use baby oil. It stays inside you and turns you into a Petri dish for bacteria. It also eats condoms which you should be using. Use a water based lube.

[Rumble88]

I didn't knew that, what about olive oil? Water based lubes aren't effective enough.

[Borg69]

No olive oil either!!!

[JimmyEcho]

I'm surprised no one mentioned K.Y. Jelly.
you have to use plenty of it.(don't be shy,it's not that expensive.)
Being serious now----and gently, slowly, slip it in.
Remember, the more you do it, the more your body will adjust.
Like working out, at first you hurt the next morning. But then your muscles adjust and then your fine.

YEAH, Your real Fine

[Charon]

Get a book called "Bend Over" available at Amazon.com. It deals directly with anal sex and is an altogether terrific book on the sexual experience as a whole. I seldom say this but I found it, beyond being very helpful. life affirming.

[TwisttheLeaf]

Olive oil can an does putrefy. Anything that can putrefy isn't something you want to be leaving lingering traces of up inside you man.

Get yourself some real lube. Decent lube.

[Rumble88]

I do have a water based lube, thank you people.

[Jake]

I didn't knew that, what about olive oil? Water based lubes aren't effective enough.

For god' sake Rumble what have I told you about olive oil and stuff. Did you ever listen to what I told you before? Did I waste my time with you? Did Alex waste his time with you?