Me [28 M] with my boyfriend [33M] of two years... found evidence of illicit drug use

[Br3ntwhite]

To be honest I have never dealt with your exact situation I have always been the drug abuser in the relationship, but I think honesty is your best bet make sure that you don't come at him in a way that seems like your attacking him or mad. Come at him as you want to make sure he is okay and that you love him and just want to know the truth. He may be mad that you snooped but you have the right to snoop it's your boyfriend and sometimes it's the only way we can find out information. I think you need to talk to him about his usage don't let him doing drugs ruin your relationship, drugs may be bad but it's not anything to ruin love over if he is bad into them get him help if not then it may be something he just likes to use to calm down and doing them while gone is most likely for you so you don't have to seem him like that