Oral sex for the first time-how?

[ETOTE]

Try practicing on a pickle, cucumber, dildo or realistic replica.

But honestly, once you see his junk and if you are completely into him and into his junk, it will come naturally.(pun intended) Just chill, start out slow and get acclimated to it. The more you do it, the more practice, the easier it will be and better you will be at it.

[50Plus]

Or if you are both working up to each other and want feedback, start sucking on his thumb or one of his fingers. He will be able to tell you if there is too much pressure.

[LJay]

Sounds like someone around ehre has some experience. Best of all, it sounds like the experience has been varied. This is important. OP, there is no single way to do it. Take some hints and be inventive. No reason the second time can't be different from the first. That is the great thing about sex. It is always a new thing.

[Uneunsae]

I also found that it just came naturally. Perhaps it's because I have an oral fixation and some people are just naturally good at it but not others? I really don't know. Anyway, he's not even going to expect you to know what you are doing the first time. Trust me, he knows what first time means.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Practice makes perfect.

Which implies two or more things in this case.
The first is that you are going to most likley be really, really crappy the first time you give head.

The second is that the more you do it, the better you will get at it.

The other is that if you practice enough to learn how to dislocate your jaw and lose that silly gag reflect and your BF will thing he died and went to heaven. Of course that requires a bit of practice.

Mind, Porn stars DO experience a lot of teeth. It happens, but then the typical suck session for them is take after take and the sucker ends up getting tired, sore jaws and things happen. The sucked just has to pretend (which is called acting) that this is the best head ever and their co-star was born without teeth.

So using Porn for an all out 'how to manual' mayn't be the best source. They are trained professionals and more often than not they are doing several takes, with breaks and fluffers.


The best thing here is for your BF to tell you what he likes/wants as you are doing it. Couching is a form of communication.... Of course saying 'deep throat my cock' may not seem like coaching as much as raunchy sex... but it is coaching.

As a virgin you are expected to make mistakes, lots of mistakes, and not know your way around the equipment. So its not like your BF is going to dump you because your first time sucking you sucked at (pardon the pun).

This is a special moment, something you are giving him which is far, far more important than if he actually finds this the best head ever. He is your first, and you are doing something with/for him you have never done for another guy - ever. That makes it all the more special and meaningful. Which makes up for the scraping that is going to happen.

[dynamodean]

In the words of Nike, "Just do it." Allow yourself to make mistakes and then learn from them. Communication is key and I'm sure your boyfriend will be understanding and helpful. There is no one right way to do it.

[supasyd]

I love giving head. The best way to think of it is just worshipping his piece. I like to start with the tongue and tease, and then work my way down. Eventually opening my throat and going all the way to the bottom. After a while you can train your gag reflex and it's really hot to hear them moan with pleasure. (To open the throat it sort of feels the same as yawning!)

[nfisher1226]

Don't overthink it. I've rarely had "bad" oral sex, except if the giver was obviously not happy about doing it. So if you do it lovingly and pay attention to how it's making him feel chances are it's going to be a very enjoyable experience for him.

[happyschizoid]

Been on the receiving end of first time oral, the thought alone of me being his first to give oral to totally made up for the inexperience. The least pleasant part of it was having to get him to relax, you are inexperienced and he knows it.

Just relax and enjoy it

[DatKid]

My first time was through a glory hole with a random person I didn't know. It was very okay, but not nearly as godly as I was expecting.