Buzzer Wrote:I have a hard time believing a guy with some closeted male-male urges would live for 8 years with a guy that he knows would be willing, and never take the opportunity.
I don't because I've lived and seen it with friends and roommates myself in similar situations with similar personalty types, low and behold they end up experimenting with me rather than the gay roommate they've been living with for 3 years....
Aside from that, as I said, I think it has more to do with the right guy than the situation.
Memechose is a good looking dude and fun but maybe he is not the guy his roomie would want to connect with in that way, maybe he has a different taste as far as looks and personality goes that he may not even realize until that right guy comes along and will just know at that point. Also, Meme is in a LTR and he may feel more of a family or brotherly connection to him that could deter him from wanting to try anything especially if he just sees it as some random experimentation or pointless, meaningless sex where he has too much respect for Meme to treat him as a cheap cum dumpster. There is also the obvious just living in complete denial to himself about it because he can't bring himself to go through with anything. These are just a few of the endless, speculative reasons why.
Since I don't know him, really none of my business or place to say.
Not saying he's gay or even bi, just imo, doesn't sound entirely straight.
Ultimately in my opinion based on experience, it is more about the opportunity of the right guy rather than the situation.