How do I politely ask a guy I hooked up with before for more sex?

[albert8512]

Well I I'm kinda shy with guys, and I found this kinda tricky since I've never done it before, done correctly. I'm still a noob with these things, I once tried before but immediately the next day, didn't get response, a friend told me to avoid things like that I should wait more days since it was very recent the sexual encounter, so I want to follow that way to make this work.

So just play it casually? Like: "Hey what's up?"- "How are you?" then proceed to "got plans for tonight" "wanna hang out?" , "Uh, hey, wanna do it again?", "lets have another wild night, it was so much fun last time "

My friend also gave me these suggestions too: "I want u to f**k me again" or "I want u to pound my a*s again, I really enjoyed it a lot when u f***ed me". Are those also OK? I mean IDK if they're like way too much? What do you guys think?

[17vs41]

I'm still new to all of these things. I've hooked up before, but never with the same people since I don't know how to approach them, I know it's awkward but I feel kinda embarrassed to ask for more I don't know why . There's this guy I want to have sex again, we even texted and went to the movies once, and haven't talked to him or texted him in a while, NOW I don't know how to ask for more sex without looking like a weirdo or a pervert who only wants sex.

Please anyone with experience with all this stuff give me some hints, like some typical questions, sentences and whatnot.

No big deal brother. You just have little to no confidence.

You aren't doing anything wrong and many others have the same issue. This is how you learn, so just speak up and let the chips fall where they may and stop being so hard on yourself!

[Bluelight]

Just be direct and to the point, but don't be rude about it. Just don't beat around the bush, and don't be like "Yo, I'm horny!" either. Just say something like "Hey, that one time was really nice, I wouldn't mind doing that again if you're down for it". Good luck!

[deepu69]

Many have given great advice. Just wanted to thank you as this post reminded me how special it is to have sex with someone who already enjoyed it with me. I had such experiences and always loved it. The comfort level and bonding was much stronger and we could try out New things every time.

[Iceblink]

Just ask him if he'd like to get together again. He didn't think you were a pervert or a creep the first time you met up, so why would he now? The worst thing that could happen is he says no and if that happens you both go on with your lives, no harm done.

[MikeW]

Yes, great advice. And, oh, come back and let us know how it worked out! Some of us (me) have no lives at all. LOL!!

[Virge]

Just make it clear that..........

You enjoyed being with him and even though you're not ready for a relationship... you'd be interested in doing it again, some more, often, daily,

Then if he doesn't want to he'll most likely be real nice about it and chances are you and he can start becoming friends once the sexual tension is out of the way and as long as you don't get clingy or start stalking.

If he likes the idea then all's good. It's a win win.

[albert8512]

Ok guys Tomorrow is the day since I believe he doesn't work on Tuesdays. In the morning I'll for sure text him. Just play it casually, right? : )

I got also other suggestions too: "I want u to f**k me again" or "I want u to pound my a*s again, I really enjoyed it a lot when u f***ed me". Are those also OK? I mean IDK if they're like way too much? What do you guys think?

[OkayOkay]

I got also other suggestions too: "I want u to f**k me again" or "I want u to pound my a*s again, I really enjoyed it a lot when u f***ed me". Are those also OK? I mean IDK if they're like way too much? What do you guys think?

You may have had sex with him before, but I don't think you know him well enough to be sure that he'd like the request to be so bluntly stated. Way 'too much' right now.

I would go for a softer approach. Would you like to hook up again sometime? I really enjoyed when we last had sex...would you be down for another go?

Let's save the "porn talk" for a little later, when you're sure he really gets into that for setting up future arrangements.

[ChadCoxRox]

Ok guys Tomorrow is the day since I believe he doesn't work on Tuesdays. In the morning I'll for sure text him. Just play it casually, right? : )

I got also other suggestions too: "I want u to f**k me again" or "I want u to pound my a*s again, I really enjoyed it a lot when u f***ed me". Are those also OK? I mean IDK if they're like way too much? What do you guys think?

Uh...

"hey, you wanna get together again sometime" versus "hey you wanna fuck me again"