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How do I politely ask a guy I hooked up with before for more sex?
#21
Just text the guy that you want to get together again. He can fill in the blanks. It really doesn't matter what you text.

One thing NOT to do: send him a pic of your butthole. That would be too much.
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#22
albert8512 Wrote:I'm still new to all of these things. I've hooked up before, but never with the same people since I don't know how to approach them, I know it's awkward but I feel kinda embarrassed to ask for more I don't know why . There's this guy I want to have sex again, we even texted and went to the movies once, and haven't talked to him or texted him in a while, NOW I don't know how to ask for more sex without looking like a weirdo or a pervert who only wants sex.

Please anyone with experience with all this stuff give me some hints, like some typical questions, sentences and whatnot.
agree with the other folks who gave you advice. Just be yourself for one. Make it known you enjoyed his company and perhaps he would like to get together again for any kind of activity you choose. Just don't place expectations......take it as it comes. Conversation, conversation, conversation. Relax. I'll admit once I see a man again he usually takes the lead anyway but I don't try and make it all about sex....I genuinely like his company.
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#23
Camfer Wrote:Just text the guy that you want to get together again. He can fill in the blanks. It really doesn't matter what you text.

One thing NOT to do: send him a pic of your butthole. That would be too much.
LOL. that funny!!
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#24
albert8512 Wrote:Ok guys Tomorrow is the day since I believe he doesn't work on Tuesdays. In the morning I'll for sure text him. Just play it casually, right? : )

I got also other suggestions too: "I want u to f**k me again" or "I want u to pound my a*s again, I really enjoyed it a lot when u f***ed me". Are those also OK? I mean IDK if they're like way too much? What do you guys think?
LOL. DON'T do that!! "Hey guy! I really want you to fuck me again!". lol. NOT a good opening! Save that for all the dirty talk WHEN and IF it happens and you are in the throes of lovemaking! If you just have to talk dirty.
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#25
sorry! didn't mean to be so graphic.
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#26
Camfer Wrote:One thing NOT to do: send him a pic of your butthole. That would be too much.

this is kind of off topic, but I just want to announce that I accept (and appreciate) those kinds of photos. just putting that out there...lol Evil_lol
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#27
Some guys like the "Hey, just sitting here with a massive erection thinking about you, what are you up to tonight?"

Others like a more subtle approach like,
"I was just sitting here and you crossed my mind, I got to thinking about our time together, I had a great time, you were nice to be with, so I thought I'd see if you might like to get together again sometime soon"
People love their ego stroked.
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#28
especially Narssassistic ones (I think that is the word and how it is spelled)
So if he was a narssassict I'd try REALLY hard to play to his ego XD
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#29
Humeinator2 Wrote:especially Narssassistic ones (I think that is the word and how it is spelled)
So if he was a narssassict I'd try REALLY hard to play to his ego XD

He's a bodybuilder, so I'm going to guess yes he could be. If so how do I play to his ego?

IDK what honestly? -_- did i f**k it up or what?

Me: "Hi, How have you been?"
Him: "Real good n u?"
Me: "Good good had some problems but everything fine now"
Me: "Hey sorry for being so shy but I'd really like to have some fun with u again.Yes I was nervous 1st time but that didn't stop me from enjoying cause i in fact liked it A LOT! IDK what u say?"
Him: "I'm down."
Me: "Cool, just tell me again when u usually can? so we can set this up ; )

That's it, that was yesterday. Should I send him a provocative image or something obviously not my naked as* or d**k but something very suggestive?

Example: IDK if it's silly but oh well.


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#30
^ that's fine. No need to send him any images (unless he asks).

You did good. Wink
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