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10-09-2014, 12:51 AM

MikeW Wrote:Umm, well so long as there are no erections or penetration -- obvious sex -- I don't see why there would be any objection.

LOL ETA: What I want to see are more pix of your hot bod!!

lol, thanks. And I'll experiment on how to post the pics here in a sec. It's my progression at the club. Last weeks were the best ones but I won't see them till friday or Sat.

I'll have to move some of the pics to imgur I imagine....

brb

10-09-2014, 12:53 AM

These are from the first week...

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MikeW · 10-09-2014, 12:56 AM

Nice. I've never been into any serious bondage. Some light stuff with my partner. Whatever gets your motor running. Actually, one time I tried to get my partner to strangle me to near death -- that was a particularly weird time in my life and our relationship. He almost went for it! LOL!!!

But this is in part due to my father who used me for target practice with his 22 rifle. Whole other story.

10-09-2014, 01:17 AM

reaper Wrote:I hear you, but sometimes you have to just live and learn. It's possible I could go forward and then realize it wasn't a great idea, or I could not do anything and risk missing what might be a good experience.

The good thing is time isn't an issue. I'll see how things unfold and go from their. I'll see him in a few days and if the opportunity presents itself maybe I'll float the idea.

I'll also respond to a few pms I got now that I can when I'm home.

From reading between the lines I can tell you are a very conscientious and level headed person! and the fact that you are asking for advice here, it means that you are very sensitive to your partners needs, and that is good! good luck and let us know how things turn out? and whatever the outcome, is all good!!!

10-09-2014, 01:36 AM

These were a few others from another gathering.

10-09-2014, 01:47 AM

LEANDRONJ Wrote:From reading between the lines I can tell you are a very conscientious and level headed person! and the fact that you are asking for advice here, it means that you are very sensitive to your partners needs, and that is good! good luck and let us know how things turn out? and whatever the outcome, is all good!!!

Thanks man, and you're right on all fronts. My mom will be fine with me not being "straight" but the bondage stuff is off the table. Somethings aren't meant to be shared. I don't think I'll mention anything to my step-father unless it became a necessity. He's a great guy, but he's kind of old school and I know he wouldn't like this. He would accept it, and accept me, but the only approval I really need is my own. I don't see the need to share something with him that will bother him in some way at this point in time. If down the road the situation changes, I'll cross that bridge. I have a best friend that I wouldn't really want to discuss this with as well. (again, not the bondage stuff) But on some level I don't think he'd be that surprised. He might be surprised to hear me say it, but not totally surprised. I couldn't even count the number of times he said I was "gay"

Life is a funny thing.

MikeW · 10-09-2014, 01:57 AM

reaper Wrote:

These were a few others from another gathering.

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LOL, don't mind me; hopefully its obvious I have an odd sense of humor

10-09-2014, 02:03 AM

Reaper yours is probably one of the most well adjusted, self aware posts I've read here. Everyone has already given you great advice, and the rest have been practicing the subtle art of drooling over your loveliness. Kudos on self confidence and calm rational decision making.

Those pictures are every kind of hot! Bow

I'm glad you are at least open to more vanilla sexual expression. You'll never know unless you try. If you don't like it, all you have to do is say stop. It's just like BDSM: people have to respect you when you tell them to stop.

Thanks for the pictures hot stuff. Respect

10-09-2014, 02:34 AM

MikeW Wrote::eek:

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LOL, don't mind me; hopefully its obvious I have an odd sense of humor

Haha, odd is a good thing. Says the guy posting pictures with a dude biting his stomach with clothespins on his nipples! Flamingdevil

Camfer · 10-09-2014, 06:27 AM

Sorry not to respond earlier but your posts were showing up late before you got to 50 posts. No one likes sucking on a balloon. Guys tend never to use condoms for oral sex. A hand job sounds like a great first encounter for you. If you get to oral sex, it's good to talk about where you want the cum to end up, in the mouth or somewhere else.

Don't think that any of your questions are dumb. Dumb is avoiding asking what you really need to know.There are not a lot of dumb questions. There are a lot of dumb answers!