And now for something completely different:
I think it was your intro post where you said you had an alpha blue collar job. Just what is an alpha blue collar job? Particularly, what does the alpha mean?
Just curious. Never heard the alpha part before.
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I am not into bondage, but kind to think, IF it is done responsibly, and you are closely monitoring your partners reactions, it is sort of like meditation for the body!? meditation as it is known allows us to explore the mind's weaknesses and strengths! Bondage, if done right allows us to explore the weak and strong senses of our physical being! I personally don't belief it is necessary to cause injury to the body, nor necessary to self inflict emotional/mental/spiritual depravations to ourselves, but a little can make us aware of our weaknesses and strengths!!
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Voyager was my favorite. The first couple of seasons were rough though. But the first few seasons of all of them were too.
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So last night was the bondage club meeting. I hung out with the guy I always play with but didn't bring up the prospect of hooking up in a more vanilla way.
I can't honestly say I had no opportunity, I did in the beginning of the night when we talked alone for a while. But I didn't really want to jump right into that. I wanted to see how the night went and if this was a real possibility or good idea.
Well the night did go really well. We played as usual and a lot of people seemed to enjoy the scene. Then he played with the other regular at the club as bottom. I was involved in this scene as well as an assistant top. It was pretty fun. I edged him...and I think you can guess how that ends.
After this we were both ready to leave and were outside talking a bit. By this time I knew I did want to pursue the vanilla hookup and I was also confident he would be game.
Unfortunately a friend of his showed up so I couldn't really bring it up.
I will definitely bring it up next time and expect it to end well.
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