It smells?... Seriously??!

[Camfer]

You have to learn how it's going to be for your body. If you practice with a butt plug or dildo on your own then you will know what the sights and smells if any will be. Then you can learn if need to douche and learn how to be clean without overdoing it.

[Steve]

I'm glad I came across this thead. I was curious about this as well. I've never engaged in anal play of any sort, but I suspect I will in order to know if I like it or not. I was curious if guys actually did anything to clean the inside. I just soap up the hands and clean the best I can. Obviously this does nothing to clean the inner ass.

I've a bottom and a top. Although I am not a lover of scat, most of us are gay men: Shit happens. The course of true love never did run smooth. Even the best prevention of the problem can fail. The best you can do, as I have said before, is to carefully douche if given the time to prepare. Barring that, possibilty, use the bathroom first and empty out your bowel as much as possible. One or two slightly soapy fingers up the ass will help clean your anal entrance with the added bonus of preparing yourself for penetration. (Prior to your first sexual encounter you may be wise to use a lubricated finger and practice getting used to the idea and feeling of penetration.)

Reaper in all seriousness, please make sure that your first encounter is with someone who knows that it's your first time (don't be shy, the other guy needs to know), that you have condoms and plenty of water based lubrication available, and that the other guy is as interested in your pleasure as he is his own. Don't be anyone's conquest. Remember, you can say stop at any time. That is your right.

First times aren't always easy, but they don't have to be unbearable. My first time occurred when I was very young, but I was lucky to find a very decent and loving guy. I won't lie, it helped that he had "herbal remedy" with him. Even if you find it somewhat uncomfortable reaper, don't give up on trying too easily. Bottoming can be a wonderful experience when done with patience and care.

(To be clear lest anyone think I was taken advantage of while very young...nuh-uh. I have almost always been the guy responsible for initiating sex. I didn't learn to devalue my self worth until later in life, at the hands of my "peers" in high school, but that is a different story.)

One other tip reaper, I said to keep a big bottle of water based lubricant for two reasons. Oil based lube will cause deterioration to a condom. The condom may rip easily at that point exposing you to bodily fluid and possible health risks. The second reason is based on my own experience, water based lubricant loses its ability to ease friction more rapidly than oil and therefore you should apply more whenever necessary, as often as need be.

Lastly, spit is not lubrication. Does it work? Yes. But very, very poorly. The best thing I could say is it's better than nothing. Don't rely on it for your first time. No matter how many times you've seen Brokeback Mountain, spit as lubrication is a bad idea (for most men anyway... some guys get off on it, but I wouldn't risk my cherry for it).

-Steve
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[Jake]

Plastic gloves, dildo, lube, shower. Since you are going to have a penis up your ass you may want to just reproduce it. Alex and I will go in one of our bathrooms and we'll pump our ass with a dildo while the water runs, yes it's going to smell like hell but only for few minute as it will all go down in the drain anyway and yes you may find that disgusting the fact that we will use our hands to clean the dildo, but being gay you gotta learn to deal with shit. We also have bidet and water base enema system, but just like PrinceAlbert said using enema too much isn't good for your colon walls since it will remove natural oil that help an easy evacuation of fecal substance.

I have escorted for years, and been on stage doing porn and never have I had an accident, because preparation is key. That double sphincters doesn't work well if you get someone well endowed. and no it isn't 5 or 6 inches away, because at 5 or 6 inches you're pretty close to the coccyx. I hit Alex coccyx few times and I'm not 5 inches or 6 I'm bigger more like 10 lol.

And the smell, well my friend, get use to it, we fuck, sweat, it smells ass all over the room. And honestly the pheromone smells will make you more excited it's part of it.

Another solution, don't want the smell of sex, then go fuck in the shower. Alex or I never got an accident in 9 years of relationship (first 2 years we had sex almost every day) because when I met him I showed him what I was doing and for him the dildo trick works just perfectly well and you can be sure once the dildo comes out clean, there's you can go play and it's good for hours because what you did you provoked a bowel movement or several until there's nothing to come out. How long does it take, well 20 to 25 minutes, but you can't get cleaner than that afterward and the smell is gone.

I am not as Virge and his boyfriend that shits Flowers hahahaha - Virge honestly an ass is an ass so - "never ever smells" come on be realistic. Sometime loves makes your senses go all fucked up. I love my dude the same way you love yours, perhaps even more, but as Alex said once to someone who was almost calling god - I shit, I catch flu, my nose can runs, I throw up, I'm a biological machine for fuck's sake don't look at me like I'm a perfect dude.

[Cuddly]

After my first 2 experiences with anal sex, this ceased to be a problem. As I have posted before on similar threads, being competent at anal sex involves developing muscle control. Specifically, control of the two sphincters of the anus. There is the first sphincter (the "rose bud") which is the entrance to the anus. The second sphincter is ~4 to 6 inches inside the anus; control of this sphincter allows one to prevent "shit in the dick" and unpleasant smells. The only real way to learn to control these muscles is practice. Some people get it right off, while others take a lot more practice.
Remember, practice makes perfect!
~Beaux

The two sphincters are neck and neck. You go through both sphincters when you insert. The purpose of controlling the sphincters is to "open up".

Supposedly, you can feel when you have feces in canal analis (when you need to take a dump), so naturally you don't play anal games while you feel this, unless you're into that sort of thing.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Sphincters:


So the two sphincter muscle groups are back to back.


Lower Intestine with rectum.


The initial length of the lower intestine, anal canal to the bend where it meets the sigmoid colon is 12 cm to 15 cm. (roughly) 4-6 inches long depending on the size of your specimen.

The Sigmoid colon is roughly 40 cm (15 inches).
Typically all one has to clean out is just the rectum. I suppose if your partner is 10 inches long then you have to clean a bit deeper.

For most people slight urgency to have a bowel movement hits when fecal matter hits the descending colon. more intense urgency to have a bowel movement is when your sigmoid colon is being filled with fecal matter. Real urgency as in prairie dogging happens when fecal matter is knock, knock, knocking on heaven's door (the rectum).

Most humans typically have a regular bowel movement every 24-48 hours. If you not within an hour of your regular bowel movement time, chances are very low that your partner will get fecal matter on the dick.

Unless you eat poorly or have some underlying condition that leads to too soft of stool, in which case all bets are off.

Or if you are constipated, or if you have ignored regular bowel movements for so long your urgency signal is messed up and you never know when you actually have a torpedo loaded and ready to go.

The stench of anal sex is primarily from gas. Flatulence is pretty common, everybody does it and both males and females four pints a day. Having a penis pumping away at your arse hole pumps air up into the colon which travels pretty high up there, mingles with the gas your gut produces and eventually (once partially pressurized) a bit (to a whole lot) of that gas has to go somewhere.

The secondary stench is usually because somebody gets carried away with too much lube or enema (call it douche if you want, but spraying fluid up your arse is an enema). More pumping action of a penis which is designed to push and pull stuff in and out (to suck out competing semen by pushing air up in their) mixed with fluids is going to loosen up fecal matter deeper up inside of you.

Sorry, but the penis is designed to suck competing semen out of a vagina, since what is being pumped ain't a vagina all of that sucking is going to suck out whatever is loose up in their.

The ass is not designed to be fucked. Period.

It is designed to dump waste, Waste is up there. If you do not like the look of fecal matter, the smell of fecal matter then don't shove anything up your arse, and defiantly don't hire a plumber to plunger your intestines, it will loosen up and cause fecal matter to come out.

[Jake]

Sphincters:

Most humans typically have a regular bowel movement every 24-48 hours. If you not within an hour of your regular bowel movement time, chances are very low that your partner will get fecal matter on the dick.

Unless you eat poorly or have some underlying condition that leads to too soft of stool, in which case all bets are off.

The stench of anal sex is primarily from gas. Flatulence is pretty common, everybody does it and both males and females four pints a day. Having a penis pumping away at your arse hole pumps air up into the colon which travels pretty high up there, mingles with the gas your gut produces and eventually (once partially pressurized) a bit (to a whole lot) of that gas has to go somewhere.

The secondary stench is usually because somebody gets carried away with too much lube or enema (call it douche if you want, but spraying fluid up your arse is an enema). More pumping action of a penis which is designed to push and pull stuff in and out (to suck out competing semen by pushing air up in their) mixed with fluids is going to loosen up fecal matter deeper up inside of you.

Sorry, but the penis is designed to suck competing semen out of a vagina, since what is being pumped ain't a vagina all of that sucking is going to suck out whatever is loose up in their.

The ass is not designed to be fucked. Period.

It is designed to dump waste, Waste is up there. If you do not like the look of fecal matter, the smell of fecal matter then don't shove anything up your arse, and defiantly don't hire a plumber to plunger your intestines, it will loosen up and cause fecal matter to come out.

And there you can't have it more specific than that. Thanks BA

[LJay]

Thank you all for sharing, gentlemen.

Breakfast is served.

[meridannight]

Sorry, but the penis is designed to suck competing semen out of a vagina, since what is being pumped ain't a vagina all of that sucking is going to suck out whatever is loose up in their.

say what? that is not true and not physiologically possible. semen is gluey, it gets stuck in there and it is not possible to pump it out by a competing penis. lols.

The ass is not designed to be fucked. Period.

the existence and positioning of the prostate proves otherwise.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

say what? that is not true and not physiologically possible. semen is gluey, it gets stuck in there and it is not possible to pump it out by a competing penis. lols.



the existence and positioning of the prostate proves otherwise.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/3128753.stm

Penis is a competitive beast


A marvel of evolutionary design?

Scientists believe the shape of the penis may have evolved to help men remove the semen of love rivals during sex. Tests led a team of US researchers, headed by Professor Gordon Gallup, to conclude that the penis acts as a "semen displacement device" and its shape has evolved in part to displace another man's semen.
The team from the State University of New York believe the thrust of the penis during sex may help to clear a woman's reproductive system of a previous lover's semen.
They tested their theory in experiments using latex phalluses, an artificial vagina and a mixture of starch and water.

Now that I have demonstrated that I know what I am talking about, do you really want the 'Your as is not for fucking' lecture? :confused:

[bootsguy]

It's time for me to learn about this from people who knew it well