My BF is getting more violent

[TwisttheLeaf]

It's time to walk away before he ends up killing you. It may not even happen on purposes, but if he's hitting and choking you, the chance of it happening whether it's intentional or not is pretty damned huge.

Even if he doesn't kill you, his behavior both physically and verbally, is damaging you on a psychological level. It will leave scars. Baggage. Get out now before the damage is so great you begin to feel it's impossible to overcome.

[Cuddly]

Yeah.. well... What's more to say? The situation is unsafe and it would serve you best to make it safe, as soon as you can. For me, I'd say it was a trust broken that would never repair itself and such a breach would have ended the relationship for me. Maybe not officially (spoken), but ended all the same. It would just be a matter of time before I worked up the courage and battle-plan to uproot and move on.

[JasonUyeyama]

[COLOR="Navy"][SIZE="4"]So more and more into this relationship, my boyfriend of two years has been growing violent, especially when things don't go the way he pictures something, if i don't want to say anything to him, or if he's just got a stomach ache. He's hit and choked me a couple of different times and also gets verbally abusive.

I really love him but this has been making me feel seperate emotionally from him. I feel like i'm not at home when I'm with him. I've been thinking about leaving him but i don't want to if there's a way i can fix things.

I'm just looking for someone to talk to. Maybe there's something i'm doing wrong to make him get like this. Any help would be immensely appreciated. Thank You[/SIZE][/COLOR]

You shouldn't live that way. You only have one life to live and should live it to the fullest. Feel free to contact me if you need someone to chat with.

[domnew]

[COLOR="Navy"][SIZE="4"]So more and more into this relationship, my boyfriend of two years has been growing violent, especially when things don't go the way he pictures something, if i don't want to say anything to him, or if he's just got a stomach ache. He's hit and choked me a couple of different times and also gets verbally abusive.

I really love him but this has been making me feel seperate emotionally from him. I feel like i'm not at home when I'm with him. I've been thinking about leaving him but i don't want to if there's a way i can fix things.

I'm just looking for someone to talk to. Maybe there's something i'm doing wrong to make him get like this. Any help would be immensely appreciated. Thank You[/SIZE][/COLOR]

break up ! don't let somebody abuse you ! Report him to the police if it's possible in your country !

[Lambert]

What a douche ,a bf is supposed to hug you and not let anyone hurt you slightly. I had a similar situation with an ex, got physical and ended up getting a black eye due to his jealousy. It's not worth it, leave him, I hope you overcome this

[sofun74sun]

[COLOR="Navy"][SIZE="4"]So more and more into this relationship, my boyfriend of two years has been growing violent, especially when things don't go the way he pictures something, if i don't want to say anything to him, or if he's just got a stomach ache. He's hit and choked me a couple of different times and also gets verbally abusive.

I really love him but this has been making me feel seperate emotionally from him. I feel like i'm not at home when I'm with him. I've been thinking about leaving him but i don't want to if there's a way i can fix things.

I'm just looking for someone to talk to. Maybe there's something i'm doing wrong to make him get like this. Any help would be immensely appreciated. Thank You[/SIZE][/COLOR]

I totally understand and Have been through it and am here for you if you wish....