If I didn't have any self control

[Radbot42]

I'd be the biggest slut. I've been super horny lately and yanking the chain isn't always enough. I can't do one night stands, as I want the sex to have more meaning behind it, but I wish I could have someone to play with now. My mouth is craving to be kissed, and my cock to be licked.

[Lexington]

I was weird - I didn't really have a slutty phase until I was significantly older and wiser. I guess that either was a good thing or a bad thing, depending on your point of view. I still get enough sex, but I'm far more likely to think "well, is this worth it?" I've turned down several offers because I didn't think the risks were worth the rewards.

If I didn't have any self control, a lot more people would have black eyes.

Lex

[Virge]

I'm in about the same frame of mind, Radbot -- but I have a guy who won't be here until Dec 26th. ugh. It's not easy. I'm like you about jerking off --- it just doesn't cut it. I want all the stuff before and after the orgasm more than the orgasm. The snogging, spooning and foreplay are what it's all about.

[ChadCoxRox]

Just reading the word snogging

and spooning

and foreplay

goodness....



I'll add that sometimes, since masturbance doesn't quite cut it, I find reading some fantasy porn helps me relieve some tension waiting for the real thang.

Virge, I know you are going to be fit to be tied over the next few weeks! Poor kid. I know it'll be worth it though. Do you skype with your babe?

Raddy, as a man thinketh...that's far enough. sometimes. Your post def made me horny.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

It will pass... Trust me after 15 years you will stop craving that whole 'intimacy with another human being thing' and cut out the feelings with razor blades or something....

[East]

I loved being a slut but when I was a slut I had no idea I was one....it wasn't until years later when someone pointed it out to me that I realized it.

My problem..I attract relationships and I have a part of me that never wanted one but I also have a weakness for a certain type of man that is hard for me to resist so fate had it's way with me. I managed to be really slutty between men but I have mostly been in a relationship...

I loved "meaningless sex"...no expectations...no bullshit...no demands...

All to often "meaningful sex" comes psycho drama and a lot of baggage....

All of that sexual purity stuff comes from religion...and I am not a fan of religious dogma....

[DreamMaker]

I'd be the biggest slut. I've been super horny lately and yanking the chain isn't always enough. I can't do one night stands, as I want the sex to have more meaning behind it, but I wish I could have someone to play with now. My mouth is craving to be kissed, and my cock to be licked.

I get you man. I get you so much.
I actually wrote a poem of frustration about it.

"I'm the prude and I'm the slut.
A mask of innocence covers my naked skin.
I'm the martyr and I'm the sinner.
A stainless facade over my shameful truth.

I'm both.
I'm the one I fear and the one I love.

The truth leaks out of me,
I no longer have control.
The shame is getting weaker after all.

I'm the prude and I'm the slut.
I am exposed.
I throw away myself into the unknown,
Wonder who will win this war...
"

[Miles]

I wake up with that every morning. Imagining there's someone in the bed or in the shower with me. Luckily I cool down by the time I get to my rather boner-unfriendly workplace. There were a few periods of several weeks in college where I was in full blown estrus though.

[DawnArmy]

I can relate. Though that is because I still live with my parents. If I ever get to be independent, for only god knows what I will become.

[JackTX]

I sometimes lament that I never slutted around. Even now I feel so inexperienced.

I feel for OP's horny periods though... we've all been there