I never had sex w/ a man before, I almost had sex before but well, he stopped when he saw tears on my eyes (he's so BIG and YES IT HURTS like mad) and we ended up only spooning til morning
when it comes to sex with men, doesn't that mean anal sex?
not like I never had sex at all, I slept w/ a few women in the past
but w/ my ex bf, I only do things like kissing, touching and well yeah some of those naughty things just not anal sex, does it even count as sex?
CCRox Wrote:Just reading the word snogging
and spooning
and foreplay
goodness....
Virge, I know you are going to be fit to be tied over the next few weeks! Poor kid. I know it'll be worth it though. Do you skype with your babe?
I left out what we call the anteforeplay -- that the little things nobody else would catch that we do or say that if he does them to me make me want to start ripping off clothes and swapping slobber. I know you guys know what I'm talking about. Everyone who's been together a few months has things like that. (good idea for a topic!)
Fit to be tied? No, really I'm doing my best to stay low key and on my game, staying busy with things and not letting myself get back into having another meltdown panic attack like the one I had a few weeks ago that spilled over into GS.
And you know for sure we skype 3 or 4 times a day. It's 11 am Sunday here / 3am Monday there so I'm waiting until 2pm to eat lunch so he can have breakfast at the same time with me. Believe it or not I can't remember the last time he and I tried to get porny on cam with each other. That mess is never worth it IMO.
JackBoneTX Wrote:I sometimes lament that I never slutted around. Even now I feel so inexperienced.
I go through that too JackBone but all I have to do to get over it is remember conversations I've had with guys telling details about their great slutty experiences. For me, none of it is as much fun to hear as it is for them to talk about. Jay has told me a bunch of times since May he wanted me to get out and be slutty if I felt the need before he gets here and the plan kicks in. I've been tempted once and got over that when he started talking about all his adventures -- some with guys I know that I have no idea why he found them attractive -- and I'd hate being on his list of things to talk about.
araya Wrote:when it comes to sex with men, doesn't that mean anal sex?
not like I never had sex at all, I slept w/ a few women in the past
but w/ my ex bf, I only do things like kissing, touching and well yeah some of those naughty things just not anal sex, does it even count as sex?
If I didn't have any self control
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