suggestions please

[whattodo]

An update.

My partner arrived back yesterday and I calmly approached the subject, he did not deny it! But said he Loves me without Boundaries, but also said that in a relationship no one person owns the other, I understand this, but cannot and will not live with someone who is on a dating site claiming to be single and living alone, which I told him. Therefore I came to the decision of breaking up with him which I Told him. He is not impressed with my decision yet I feel I have to do this, so I do not have to worry about whether I am in a relationship together or in a relationship alone, in conclusion I am not looking for another relationship Trust is hard to find and I feel I cannot trust at this point in time. I have made the decision to carry on my life being single and living alone just as he had wanted. I am not bitter about this but enough is enough. Once again Thank you all for suggestions and your input in the situation. BG ( what todo)

[Virge]

Dang you guys are no fun. Don't you know how much more fun it would have been to talk him into slitting car tires. burning clothes in the front yard and sending naked pics to everyone in his BF's family?

[ChadCoxRox]

An update.

My partner arrived back yesterday and I calmly approached the subject, he did not deny it! But said he Loves me without Boundaries, but also said that in a relationship no one person owns the other, I understand this, but cannot and will not live with someone who is on a dating site claiming to be single and living alone, which I told him. Therefore I came to the decision of breaking up with him which I Told him. He is not impressed with my decision yet I feel I have to do this, so I do not have to worry about whether I am in a relationship together or in a relationship alone, in conclusion I am not looking for another relationship Trust is hard to find and I feel I cannot trust at this point in time. I have made the decision to carry on my life being single and living alone just as he had wanted. I am not bitter about this but enough is enough. Once again Thank you all for suggestions and your input in the situation. BG ( what todo)

I hope you'll find strength and resolve in your decision. It sounds like the best way to work on finding your ability to trust again in the future. I also hope staying connected at GS, over time, will be a great source of support (despite the evidence to the contrary that simply was not meant to be too distracting). GS is a place for support and friendship more than contention and that's easily learned with a little time.

MOST important, there are others here and yet to come who are or have been in the same predicament and need support to decide how best to move forward. You are now an important part of that support. I wish you happiness and comfort RIGHT NOW.

[JackTX]

[MENTION=21949]whattodo[/MENTION]

Ah sorry to hear it's over. It sounds like you were able to come to a decision about what you needed and are sticking to that, which is good. Not everyone can do that.

It might be a good time to make new friends if you don't have enough of them