Need advice on making a decision

[araya]

lol never knew this would go this far
the thing is, if you don't wanna get STDs or HIV, just don't suck every cock you see or kiss every guy you met! do it only with your BF and make sure your BF is safe from all that, case closed

[bluerealm]

I'm drinking a beer but i'm not done talking!

some people take stds and hiv like its no big deal.

I'm not going to tell you names or sites but i have been on HIV sites that offer support.

I don't have hiv but i also don't discriminate.

Hiv can be caught from bleeding gums, mild stds, and high viral loads.

i have read 100s of stories saying i only did orel.
even with condoms people get hiv!!!

so don't tell me nothing about orel is safe!

one more thing about other types of stds.

hpv can turn into cancer!

orel or butt cancer!

nothing like losing control of your bowel movements cause of cancer.

Yes, we are all going to die and you can't worry about every little thing in life.

BUT if your horny get a flash light or a dildo.

but if your looking for love be very very picky and make sure he loves his own health as much as yours.

I bless you

the end

[bluerealm]

and thats oral.

i'm drinking and I'm an idiot.

but i'm so tired of gay boys becoming statistics.

its fun to be young and have no attachments and just injoy sex.

i wish i had the chance to have more sex!!!!

but i feel as if i have to protect society.

but some people have not problem giving you something they got from someone else.

they just pretend like nothing is wrong with them.

how do you do that and not be a sociopath.

so heres to life and how fast it can f**k you over by thinking we live in some kind of disney movie.

i can't even count how many stds we have nowadays.

[dilema]

I have one final question and i hope i don't get "google it" for an answer because i did and its not totally clear.

this is from one of the sites i visited:
"Genital herpes is only passed through direct skin-to-skin contact, both orally and genitally."
does direct skin to skin contact also means touching? hugging?

Trust me when i say that i don't fear the disease itself as much as i fear passing it on to my family.
and i don't even know if i have any STD this is just future reference.