Arousal during doctor exams

[keyboardsurfer]

I am new here so this topic may have been covered, but I find myself getting aroused during medical exams, especially during the prostate exam. With a straight doctor, this can be very embarrassing, so I would greatly prefer being examined by a doctor whom I know is gay or bi. Any tips on how to find such a doctor? It is not as if they advertise themselves in the Yellow Pages under “bi and gay doctors.”

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Doctors are used to the physiological responses of the human body. I assure you a doctor who has served any time at all in the medical field has seen a lot more which can be a lot more embarrassing that springing a bit of wood when you get a prostate exam. In all honesty that you can spring wood with a bit of poke and prod is actually a sign of health.

No there is no way to find a 'gay' doctor. Its a form of discrimination, or liable to open the doors to direct discrimination for a doctor to post his or her sexual orientation.

Besides which what will be accomplished having a bi or gay doctor? Ethically and legally dating ones patient is verboten (forbidden),and its not like your physiology is any different that the other 7.3 billion human beings that plague this poor defenseless planet.

Your springing wood is not because you really want to do your doctor, its because your doctor is doing things to you which are stimulating, and many men, bi, gay and straight have similar reactions and I fear, hold similar feelings of embarrassment over biological functions.

Consider yourself lucky. You are a bi man who is getting a bit of wood when a man pushes your button. Can you imagine the horror of a straight man who get similar reactions when a man pushes his button? Can you imagine the long nights he lays in bed wondering if that means he is really gay?

[Rareboy]

Hey. There's a whole porn genre dedicated to this.

News alert. Unless your doc is doing it wrong, has mirrors or is doing a reach around....he won't know that you pop a chub while he's fondling your spunk nut.

And when he's cupping your balls to check for hernia or lumps....I suspect he's had more than one guy have a typical physiological response.

He's cool with it.

[araya]

I always wanna be teased by a hunky doctor lol
no, I guess it's plain okay
just like what bowyn stated, they're already used to it and they kinda understand
cuz they know they touch sensitive spots of your body :p

[Miles]

Even if your doctor notices your widdle chubby wubby, he won't give a shit...I mean, unless you give a shit while his finger's in there. Straight or gay, it doesn't matter - he's a professional. It's his job to see and deal with shit more fucked up and disgusting than you can possibly imagine on a fairly regular basis. Also wouldn't it be worse if they're gay? If they're straight at least you know they're no more eager to have their finger in your ass than you are, and given your persuasions probably much less. Not even sure how you can get aroused in that scenario, in my experience it's pretty un-erotic.

[CellarDweller]

I can only echo what everyone is saying, it's normal, the doctor has seen it before, don't worry about it.

Be grateful that it's a sign that everything is working as it should. LOL

[Virge]

I am new here so this topic may have been covered, but I find myself getting aroused during medical exams, especially during the prostate exam. With a straight doctor, this can be very embarrassing, so I would greatly prefer being examined by a doctor whom I know is gay or bi. Any tips on how to find such a doctor? It is not as if they advertise themselves in the Yellow Pages under “bi and gay doctors.”

I smell pig poop with this. First post, no age. I'm almost 27 and have only had 2 prostate exams by doctors. Are you getting prostate exams on every visit or something? How often do you schedule prostate exams? Why the heck do you think it would be less embarrassing if you boned up with a gay or bi doctor? They'll probably tell you like I'm going to -- you need to go find another doctor and stop wasting their valuable time by pulling them into your exam room porn fantasies.

[JackTX]

I used to worry that this would happen to me but somehow I just don't get excited when I'm in there.

Like the other guys said, I wouldn't worry too much about it. I'm sure they are used to that happening every once in a while and they don't want to make you feel uncomfortable about it because they want to keep you as a patient

[Rareboy]

^ There is no boner killer like a physical exam. I also think that anyone 'complaining' about popping a chub during a 30 second finger fuck is exaggerating their physical response.

I had the hottest...and I mean the HOTTEST homo doc in Toronto in the 1980's....and when he was looking at my dick or slipping a well lubricated digit into my funhole to see if it had turned to stone...I had zero response......

[meridannight]

there's nothing embarrassing about it and doctors are aware this could happen. it happens to straight men too. it's male physiology, nothing to get embarrassed about.