We need to talk.

[Bhp91126]

You accepted him before he was working out. Now that he is working out, he doesn't want you to join him. Hate to break it to you, he's working out for someone else's benefit. Prepare for the breakup talk!

[MountLogan]

You accepted him before he was working out. Now that he is working out, he doesn't want you to join him. Hate to break it to you, he's working out for someone else's benefit. Prepare for the breakup talk!

I disagree... many peoples want a relationship and also have a life. Not do anything with their boyfriend or girlfriend. For him training may be a friend thing, something separate of his love life.

Hopefully I am right otherwise I would feel bad if he breakup with you since I don't think you have to worry to much lol

[LJay]

At least he won't be telling you he is pregnant.

[dynamodean]

When a guy says we need to talk that it its about us and its not about me and its more about him. Does that mean that he is going to break up with me? I can't tell because he is still calling me babe. I am thinking the worst.

He is suppose to come over tonight because he says he wants to tell me about it in person.

lol, while your guy may mean well by it...in general, I just can't with that statement...

The whole "it's not you, it's me thing" is stupid, at least from my experience. I call bullshit whenever I hear that. I automatically know it's a cop out and he/she doesn't have the balls to say it like it is. If you're not happy with me, then just fucking say it.

[Virge]

All I have to do is say those words as a joke and my guy goes psycho. hahahahaha! He hates them and says about the same thing as East did about them being a means of torture/blackmail. The way to have a talk is to make it a point to stop everything and have the talk... not put someone through a guessing game and worries about it.

But pushing the issue and forcing the talk might be exactly what he wants you to do. Don't do it and make it easy for him to flip it all around and make you out to be the bad guy for being upset about him telling you he wants to have a talk. I guess maybe the best thing to do is act like you aren't worried about it and make him push the issue -- if he will.

[danvotion86]

Yup well he broke up with me....

[MountLogan]

oh no i was so wrong then

Did he gave you any reason?

[East]

Yup well he broke up with me....

Oh wow...I am sorry man.....

I know you probably have to go through a lot of different emotions but keep in mind someplace...tuck it away so it's there when you need it...when a door closes...a window opens...and he may have just given you the freedom you need to meet the love of your life...

[Virge]

Sorry dude. Don't sit back and let it get you down. Get back up, learn from the mistakes so you won't repeat them and get back in the groove to find a better guy.

And there's a old song by one of the REAL divas about that.
If I had a feathery dress and some size 14 heels I do it in drag for ya right now to cheer ya up.

It's worth a listen.

[Rareboy]

No we hung out a couple days ago. We drank wine i provided. We watched brokeback mountain. We cuddled kissed and you know. It was a great night. But also that night he said that he is starting to work out. Then I havent seen much of him. He just goes to his friends house to hang with him and work out with him.

I asked him one night since he cant hang out a lot maybe we can talk on the phone. He said no he is going straight to bed. I admit i don't handle things well... He says it isnt bad and i need to chill. He is still calling me baby. So i guess if he wanted to break up. he wouldnt be calling me baby.

But i do need some advice. When I am with a guy I tend to become obsessed. I am not sure why. When im single of course im lonely but i am more sane than when im with someone. It feels like im drowning.

If I am being a little crazy to him. Is there any ways to fix it?

I hope you see what I've done there. You want to fix something? Work on fixing this. If you are acting out as obsessive, possessive and smothering....he may be about to run.
You may need some professional help to assist you with this. All i can offer is this....