12-13-2014, 05:14 PM
Well rule is rule.
I should reintroduce myself. My name is Jay and I was a long time member of GS before I decided to remove my account several months ago. I deleted my account due to several factors - I chose wrong career path that led to destruction, I was hurt by a friend that I truly adore and my father was ill (tumor). Too many things to juggle at a time. I don't know if I had a depression but emotionally; I was helpless and tearing apart.
It took me several months to bounce back. I've fully recovered since last November.
I left the job from hell. My dad completed his surgery (the tumor has been removed). I was offered a job from heaven and I accepted it. I've forgiven my friend and I apologized to him too. We've rekindled our friendship.
To people who do not know me, I used to be super obese. I was 363lbs (165kg) with 64 inches of waist. I'm currently at 161lbs (73kg). I'm still working on to lose my weight. I'm a health and gym freak now.
I had to go through multiple surgeries over the years to remove skin flaps from my body. I still have at least two more surgeries to go. Those surgeries were supposed to be completed few years ago but both surgeries have been cancelled by the hospital due to technical issues. I hope I can complete one of the surgeries at the end of next year. It's long overdue.
Throughout the years I've seen the nicest and cruelest sides of people. When I was super obese, I was the victim of bullying and depression. Nowadays I am still being criticized from time to time. People continue to criticize my face and was suggested to do plastic surgery on it; inserting cheek implants and face lift. I took it hard but I've learned that people will always find a way to criticize you.
I plan to participate in marathon (10km) on next February. Follows with Viper (20km with obstacles) on next March. I just would like to see how far I can go.
I'm still single. I have been approached by many but I don't feel like it's the right time to settle down for a relationship due to upcoming surgeries etc. I have too many things in mind. Or maybe I'm just making excuses. All I'm asking from a potential man is to understand what I'm going through, willing to support me and able to accept me as who I am. I'm not perfect. I have scars all over my body due to surgery. I also injured my left leg due to extreme overweight. Some people labelled me as disabled and I was even offered a place to join national Paralympic team. But I'm not disabled. I'm badass and kick ass.
Generally people consider me as a naive guy. Not naive as ignorance. But too kind to people. As a result, I had quite a long history of people backstabbing or using me. The homeless guy that I helped in this forum few years ago turns out to be a sham too. I spent few hundreds to help him but well, I was used by him. That was my mistake as I didn't oblige the rule given by GS.
I've learned my lesson. So now I have sort of limit my kindness to people. Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me. Third time, god, I'm stupid.
I should reintroduce myself. My name is Jay and I was a long time member of GS before I decided to remove my account several months ago. I deleted my account due to several factors - I chose wrong career path that led to destruction, I was hurt by a friend that I truly adore and my father was ill (tumor). Too many things to juggle at a time. I don't know if I had a depression but emotionally; I was helpless and tearing apart.
It took me several months to bounce back. I've fully recovered since last November.
I left the job from hell. My dad completed his surgery (the tumor has been removed). I was offered a job from heaven and I accepted it. I've forgiven my friend and I apologized to him too. We've rekindled our friendship.
To people who do not know me, I used to be super obese. I was 363lbs (165kg) with 64 inches of waist. I'm currently at 161lbs (73kg). I'm still working on to lose my weight. I'm a health and gym freak now.
I had to go through multiple surgeries over the years to remove skin flaps from my body. I still have at least two more surgeries to go. Those surgeries were supposed to be completed few years ago but both surgeries have been cancelled by the hospital due to technical issues. I hope I can complete one of the surgeries at the end of next year. It's long overdue.
Throughout the years I've seen the nicest and cruelest sides of people. When I was super obese, I was the victim of bullying and depression. Nowadays I am still being criticized from time to time. People continue to criticize my face and was suggested to do plastic surgery on it; inserting cheek implants and face lift. I took it hard but I've learned that people will always find a way to criticize you.
I plan to participate in marathon (10km) on next February. Follows with Viper (20km with obstacles) on next March. I just would like to see how far I can go.
I'm still single. I have been approached by many but I don't feel like it's the right time to settle down for a relationship due to upcoming surgeries etc. I have too many things in mind. Or maybe I'm just making excuses. All I'm asking from a potential man is to understand what I'm going through, willing to support me and able to accept me as who I am. I'm not perfect. I have scars all over my body due to surgery. I also injured my left leg due to extreme overweight. Some people labelled me as disabled and I was even offered a place to join national Paralympic team. But I'm not disabled. I'm badass and kick ass.
Generally people consider me as a naive guy. Not naive as ignorance. But too kind to people. As a result, I had quite a long history of people backstabbing or using me. The homeless guy that I helped in this forum few years ago turns out to be a sham too. I spent few hundreds to help him but well, I was used by him. That was my mistake as I didn't oblige the rule given by GS.
I've learned my lesson. So now I have sort of limit my kindness to people. Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me. Third time, god, I'm stupid.
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