12-27-2014, 03:23 PM
Not long ago I started using Grindr...the results were mixed, lol.
I used it for a straight hookup once or twice, then decided to use it to meet guys but meeting them publicly even if it was only going to be a one time thing.
So I met a guy on there and it was different then my other conversations. We decided to meet at a diner and spent a few hours talking, then we came back to my place and hooked up.
We continued to chat through the site and met a few more times. We always did something besides just hook up...usually we'd go out to eat.
After the 3rd meeting (date, hookup, whatever it was) something changed. I liked this guy and knew the feeling was mutual. But I was keeping my guard up just the same, I think he was doing the same.
I was trying to keep him at arms length and was cautious about revealing any feelings that I may have had towards him. Even though I felt we had a connection right away.
When we hooked up the third time, at his apartment, it was different. It was hot the other times, but it was hotter that time. There was kissing involved, or more kissing. It was more sensual in a way. After we cuddled and watched tv. He had his head on my lap and I played with his hair and rubbed his chest. Then I left...
Following that things changed quite a bit. My guard was down, or as [MENTION=21075]Borg69[/MENTION] might say, resistance was futile.
We started texting each other pretty frequently. The tone of the texts were sweet.
Last night he came here after work and I romanced it up a bit. I even got him a small xmas gift. He slept over.
We talked for a while and decided we weren't going to whore it up with anyone else. We decided that we were a couple and both deleted our grindr accounts....
He just left here for work a little while ago...we're going on a date later tonight. I want to plan something romantic.
I even brought up the club stuff, which he knew about from day 1, to get his REAL feeling on it. Fortunately he has no issue with it. He sees it for what it is. I also told him that my grindr age, and real age were not the same. He didn't care.
So I have my first boyfriend....it's been an action packed few months for me! I see this going really well.
I guess that's about it for now....
I used it for a straight hookup once or twice, then decided to use it to meet guys but meeting them publicly even if it was only going to be a one time thing.
So I met a guy on there and it was different then my other conversations. We decided to meet at a diner and spent a few hours talking, then we came back to my place and hooked up.
We continued to chat through the site and met a few more times. We always did something besides just hook up...usually we'd go out to eat.
After the 3rd meeting (date, hookup, whatever it was) something changed. I liked this guy and knew the feeling was mutual. But I was keeping my guard up just the same, I think he was doing the same.
I was trying to keep him at arms length and was cautious about revealing any feelings that I may have had towards him. Even though I felt we had a connection right away.
When we hooked up the third time, at his apartment, it was different. It was hot the other times, but it was hotter that time. There was kissing involved, or more kissing. It was more sensual in a way. After we cuddled and watched tv. He had his head on my lap and I played with his hair and rubbed his chest. Then I left...
Following that things changed quite a bit. My guard was down, or as [MENTION=21075]Borg69[/MENTION] might say, resistance was futile.
We started texting each other pretty frequently. The tone of the texts were sweet.
Last night he came here after work and I romanced it up a bit. I even got him a small xmas gift. He slept over.
We talked for a while and decided we weren't going to whore it up with anyone else. We decided that we were a couple and both deleted our grindr accounts....
He just left here for work a little while ago...we're going on a date later tonight. I want to plan something romantic.
I even brought up the club stuff, which he knew about from day 1, to get his REAL feeling on it. Fortunately he has no issue with it. He sees it for what it is. I also told him that my grindr age, and real age were not the same. He didn't care.
So I have my first boyfriend....it's been an action packed few months for me! I see this going really well.
I guess that's about it for now....
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