Going to do it !!!

[Beaux]

Oh...I am fine. I actually should have kept my mouth shut like I always do in these situations until I can't anymore...but I wasn't in the mood.

As long as none of my friends get emotional blackmail BS and no one I care about gets reeled in...I am cool.

I have to say, that I am sticking with East on this one. I HOPE that this situation is different that what I precieve it to be.....but I am gonna keep my mouth shut and let it all play out...
~Beaux

[East]

I HOPE that this situation is different that what I precieve it to be.....
~Beaux

Me too Beaux...I love to be wrong when this happens. I even wish I were wrong more often.

[lonley]

I am sorry that you think that I am trying to get attention by lying ,it really hurts to be treated this way I only wish I knew why you think I am somebody else .I am not sure who this person is but they sound like a jerk to me . Can you tell me what they wrote or what the thread is they wrote so I may understand why you feel this way . I refuse to believe that I am the only man alive that has ever had feelings for a man and slept with that man chosen to leave his wife for that man . If I could I would go back and never have posted a dam thing it is obvious that you all will never let me live down what someone else did and I say this to you doubters one last time and I mean one last time . I am not who ever this is and I would appreciate you stop calling me a liar . I am not going to take it any longer ! I can say that you are lying because someone else already said what you did and that makes you a liar . See how stupid that sounds

[Cinestry]

Lately I have been reading A LOT of threads on here and I do see why people are suspicious.
You are right that you are not the only person that's ever been in this situation or that's said the things you say, I think its more about the way everything is being said (drastic decisions being made right after posting, writing about a plan in the near future, negative outcome of that plan being added later on, etc.)
I do agree with the people that say it doesn't matter whether its true or not, as like you said yourself people do get into situations like this and we should try to help them who are experiencing this. I think giving people time to think more rationally about a confession someone just made to them is an important factor of getting through all this. Good luck.

[lonley]

Thanks for giving me you take on it .Yes you are right I messed up I see how they think I am not being truthful I did not just decide to cheat and tell her and the kids in a week I have been unhappy for sometime and have wanted to leave for a while now the cheating has made it all worse I have to admit

[reaper]

Sorrynotsorry but this sounds a little fake to me. Maybe a troll. Maybe wants some attention. Idk but Something smells fishy.

A troll I sense...

[lonley]

WOW reaper you calling me a troll !
I copied this from your coming out story .
A few weeks ago I decided to break out of my comfort zone and decided to explore it all. I went to a gay bondage club. I was quite nervous about the entire thing. I took me a few minutes to build up the will to walk inside. Then I got moving, I walked down a hall leading to the entrance....a gay flag hung down the wall. It made me laugh inside. Then I went in...it was the real deal.

I didn't do anything that night. I just observed (a lot of people don't actually get involved in the actual play) I've been back a few times and do partake. (not sex, but it is sexual)


I say that is so far fetched sounds like you watched a porno and thought that it would be believable and it is not !!

[shirogane]

I say that is so far fetched sounds like you watched a porno and thought that it would be believable and it is not !!

lonley you should stop act like that. There are people who help you, you saw it. Just keep updating story and that will prove them wrong.

[lonley]

Ok I am sorry I will stop it !

I have not been able to get her to look at me let alone talk to me . The kids seem to be OK I think that you all are right I do not think they understand what I told them so I am thinking that might be a good thing right now. I just wish there was something I can say or do that would make my wife feel a little better .I am trying to give her some space and work threw it I know that it was a big bomb shell that I dropped on here and I only wish I would have thought things threw before I jumped into it all . I have stopped everything with the man I cheated with I told him what is going on and we agreed to put things on hold and maybe we will be able to move forward some day just not now .

[Iceblink]

Something smells fishy.

That's what he's trying to get away from by coming out.